"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sex Report - Same Night Lay (First time meet)

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Im not very good at writing feild reports but ill try my best


Met this HB7 Blond chick on POF a couple of days ago, talked on the phone one, texted twice.

I gave her two options to go the beach or a movie by me. Obv since its cold she choose the movie.

She got to my place, instantly jumped on my bed, settled in, took her jacket off. I knew from that moment it was on. We talked for a bit a bout our lives to get to know eachother better. Surprisingly she was the first POF chick I met that was actually pretty sane(so far) and no parent issues.

I put a a comedy on, she lays down in my bed without me even saying anything, I do light kino at first and she loved it. She says she loves when I run her hands from her fingers to her shoulders. So I did that for a bit. moved up to her neck, down to her tits. She didnt have a problem. Kissed her neck, tickled her a bit...Kissed her for a while, moved to her neck again then down to her tits. I was sucking on her tits then moved her bra out of the way to play and suck her nipples.

Instantly tuned on!!! She took her pants off without me even trying and started to rub her ****, I moved her hand out of the way and started rubbing her **** and fingering her on and off, making her want it more.

Then I got between her legs on top of her. Kissed her neck again then sucked her nipples while rubbing her ****. (Damn did she have a nice tight clean *****)

I rolled my pants down and used my **** to rub her **** and stick it in and out of her ***** to tease her. She was clenching my back and moaning like crazy and this point. I stuck it in slowly and started pumping away. She gave me a little residence at first so I pulled out and rubbed her **** again to get her extra horny, stuck it in again then started to **** again. At this time she basically screaming scratching me. Felt her legs tense up, so I knew she was cumming(again)..(Made her *** before from fingering her).

I pulled out, then started to kiss her body and since she was sensitive down there I started to eat her out gently, again she started to moan. After that was all said and done we' cuddled for a bit watched some more of the movie then she asked me when we are haning again, went settled on 4 days from now, because of our work schedules. Then she went home(She only lives a town away which is sick).

Crissco
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Good job man.. some girls are just down for it.. and you really don't have to do too much work. Of course, this kind of thing happens much more often to macks than a square. You must have some pretty solid phone/text game...
 

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Crissco said:
Im not very good at writing feild reports but ill try my best


Met this HB7 Blond chick on POF a couple of days ago, talked on the phone one, texted twice.

I gave her two options to go the beach or a movie by me. Obv since its cold she choose the movie.

She got to my place, instantly jumped on my bed, settled in, took her jacket off. I knew from that moment it was on. We talked for a bit a bout our lives to get to know eachother better. Surprisingly she was the first POF chick I met that was actually pretty sane(so far) and no parent issues.

I put a a comedy on, she lays down in my bed without me even saying anything, I do light kino at first and she loved it. She says she loves when I run her hands from her fingers to her shoulders. So I did that for a bit. moved up to her neck, down to her tits. She didnt have a problem. Kissed her neck, tickled her a bit...Kissed her for a while, moved to her neck again then down to her tits. I was sucking on her tits then moved her bra out of the way to play and suck her nipples.

Instantly tuned on!!! She took her pants off without me even trying and started to rub her ****, I moved her hand out of the way and started rubbing her **** and fingering her on and off, making her want it more.

Then I got between her legs on top of her. Kissed her neck again then sucked her nipples while rubbing her ****. (Damn did she have a nice tight clean *****)

I rolled my pants down and used my **** to rub her **** and stick it in and out of her ***** to tease her. She was clenching my back and moaning like crazy and this point. I stuck it in slowly and started pumping away. She gave me a little residence at first so I pulled out and rubbed her **** again to get her extra horny, stuck it in again then started to **** again. At this time she basically screaming scratching me. Felt her legs tense up, so I knew she was cumming(again)..(Made her *** before from fingering her).

I pulled out, then started to kiss her body and since she was sensitive down there I started to eat her out gently, again she started to moan. After that was all said and done we' cuddled for a bit watched some more of the movie then she asked me when we are haning again, went settled on 4 days from now, because of our work schedules. Then she went home(She only lives a town away which is sick).

Crissco
This pretty much happened to a friend of mine, she slept over and the next morning when she left, he walked into the bathroom and written on the mirror with lipstick was, "welcome to the world of aids"...just sayin...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Where's the slipping of the condom ???
 

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Hate to say it but i raw dogged it. Bad decision was stuck in the moment and didnt want a state break.
 

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I been there done that. I hate condoms. Make sure to get yourself checked though.
 

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Crissco said:
Hate to say it but i raw dogged it. Bad decision was stuck in the moment and didnt want a state break.
Come on man, you know better than that. You think she only acted that easy for you?

Odds are, you're fine, but you need to wrap it up EVERY TIME with girls like this. No excuses- it's just not worth the risk.
 

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Jeffst1980 said:
Come on man, you know better than that. You think she only acted that easy for you?

Odds are, you're fine, but you need to wrap it up EVERY TIME with girls like this. No excuses- it's just not worth the risk.
I know bro I know!! I wrap it up 99% of the time, this time I was horny as fukkk and didnt want LMR. Im getting checked soon though, dont know where this girl has been.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jeffst1980 said:
Come on man, you know better than that. You think she only acted that easy for you?

Odds are, you're fine, but you need to wrap it up EVERY TIME with girls like this. No excuses- it's just not worth the risk.
You should always wrap up regardless if the girl is a one night stand, FWB, girlfriend or wife. Your sexual health should be the most important thing on your mind. I also find it staggering that sexually active men don't carry condoms in their wallets or keep some in their home. Talk about a cheap skate.

Crissco, congratulations. It seems many men are able to score easy lays from Plenty of Fish - if anybody is struggling to get laid then I suggest they use Plenty of Fish. Anybody with a half decent game should be able to have some success on there. Jariel seems to meet a lot of his women from there. If I ever get desperate, I might create a profile and give it a whirl.
 

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perseverance said:
You should always wrap up regardless if the girl is a one night stand, FWB, girlfriend or wife. Your sexual health should be the most important thing on your mind. I also find it staggering that sexually active men don't carry condoms in their wallets or keep some in their home. Talk about a cheap skate.

Crissco, congratulations. It seems many men are able to score easy lays from Plenty of Fish - if anybody is struggling to get laid then I suggest they use Plenty of Fish. Anybody with a half decent game should be able to have some success on there. Jariel seems to meet a lot of his women from there. If I ever get desperate, I might create a profile and give it a whirl.
I have condoms under my bed, like I said 100 times I didnt want anymore LMR from this girl.

This is like my 10th SNL from POF. First Sex Report I wrote though. I really dont feel like a need to boost or tell others about my sex life.

Only reason I did was because lack of reports on this site.
 

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Aaron B said:
"bareback" is a homosexual term

when you have sex with a woman without a condom, "bareback" is not the correct term

yeah, i believe "retarded" is the correct term.
 

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can somebody clear this up for me. ive heard that carrying a condom in your wallet is bad for the condom and makes it more likely to break. is this true?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oxford comma said:
can somebody clear this up for me. ive heard that carrying a condom in your wallet is bad for the condom and makes it more likely to break. is this true?
It's apparently true, but I am pretty sure carrying a condom in your wallet for a few hours isn't going to damage the condom all that much and it's still better going in wrapped up then not wrapping up at all. You don't even have to use your wallet, you can just keep them in your front pocket.
 

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jacob said:
This pretty much happened to a friend of mine, she slept over and the next morning when she left, he walked into the bathroom and written on the mirror with lipstick was, "welcome to the world of aids"...just sayin...
And if your friend knows her name and saved proof, he could have sued her for knowingly given him aids.
 
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Crissco said:
I have condoms under my bed, like I said 100 times I didnt want anymore LMR from this girl.

This is like my 10th SNL from POF. First Sex Report I wrote though. I really dont feel like a need to boost or tell others about my sex life.

Only reason I did was because lack of reports on this site.
So you put potential last minute resistance on a higher pedestal than your sexual health? I wasn't criticising you for posting the report, Crissco. I like reading about successes, it's nice that this forum isn't always filled with "woe is me" posts. I was just saying that Plenty of Fish seems like an excellent website for men who just want no strings attached sex. If any man is struggling with the game or needs an ego boost, or wants to try and test the advice given on here then Plenty of Fish could be worth a shout.
 

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So you put potential last minute resistance on a higher pedestal than your sexual health? I wasn't criticising you for posting the report, Crissco. I like reading about successes, it's nice that this forum isn't always filled with "woe is me" posts. I was just saying that Plenty of Fish seems like an excellent website for men who just want no strings attached sex. If any man is struggling with the game or needs an ego boost, or wants to try and test the advice given on here then Plenty of Fish could be worth a shout.
I realized my mistake bro. No need to criticize me for it.

I have no problem getting girls out in public, I go out every weekend and approach. POF was just easier for me during the week if I got bored. I actually deleted my account because I want to pull same night lays out in clubs.
 

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Ya I approve of using some internet for the weekdays, I know dudes who go out and sarge, hit up like 10-60 (yes, 60) sets a day but I really can't find the energy to go out of my way and use a huge chunk of my day for daygaming unless I'm in Kowloon on the weekend but thats pretty rare. Mostly doing night game at the moment with a 1 approach rule per day on the weekdays.

I think everyone raw dogs it, it just happens but its gotta be wrapped up as much as possible haha
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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