"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Im 17, but I think adults would be more suited to help me with this. I am a quite attractive male, I have an awesome personality and everything...but Ii have problems with sex. Its not that Im bad at it....the last girl I had sex with (not sure if virgin or not)...got a little freaked out by my behavior in bed...I like to bite asses (lightly) and put my mouth everywhere, **** like that. She seemed like she was freaked out by it....this wasn't my first time by a long shot. I guess you could consider me like an animal in bed.....I dont get it......why isn't she turned on by it.....this is how your supposed to have sex....RIGHT!!!!???? I sure love it...
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Every girl is different. The first couple times with a new girl, be somewhat conservative, then, add a little more, and experiment with time.

It sounds like you are one sided about it. Do what she wants you to do first, to get her going. Find out what pushes her buttons . Concentrate on learning how to make her cvm, before you get weird. then, Gradually get weird. When you get older, you will fvck more girls who like to get weird right away. They're called hors. You're a youngster, fvck like one.
 
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woods said:
Every girl is different. The first couple times with a new girl, be somewhat conservative, then, add a little more, and experiment with time.

It sounds like you are one sided about it. Do what she wants you to do first, to get her going. Find out what pushes her buttons . Concentrate on learning how to make her cvm, before you get weird. then, Gradually get weird. When you get older, you will fvck more girls who like to get weird right away. They're called hors. You're a youngster, fvck like one.
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Well I've had sex a total of 20 some times between 5 girls belive me I know what im doing better then alot of adults. All of those girls have told me I was the best they ever had (sexwise) aside from this one....I just don't get it...I think im just gonna break her off.....not good enough clearly.
 
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yeah dude your style is completely wild - chicks dig that animalistic abandon in bed...
don't worry about one girl - keep up the good work
 
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....you shouldnt really pay alot of mind to what women say especially in bed lol. I think you should do what the poster above said....go slow take it easy....then get into your type of sh1t.....at least you dont pop in 2mins lol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Are all girls *****s? Are they really? Or,judging by some mixed messages,go for them when younger,avoid when older? Wish I had banged 5 chicks when I was his age...
 
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90% of the time they finish before I do. Im just gonna close the curtain on this girl, there are millions of fish in the sea anyways. Thanks for all the suggestions guys!
 
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My current girlfriend was very conservative (only liked missionary position), but I changed that. You got to become freakier as time goes on.

Get her accumulated to it.

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