"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sex problem

WhitePimp

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Alright, last night was the first time me and my new girlfriend had sex. We were going at it strong for like 30 minutes and I made her come like 5 times, but I could not come to save my life. I kept zoning out or something during it and my mind was just drifting. Kind of sucked for me and her...she was trying her best and just could not get me off. Anyone else deal with this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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amoka

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I've not been faced with this problem before but from what I've heard, this issue arises when a man perform masturbation on regular basis. It was suggested that you perform oral sex before having the intercourse.
 

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Haha, this isn't a bad thing. Imagine if it was vice versa and she couldn't get off. Much worse. Sometimes it makes a girl want it more when they know they can't make you come to climax so easily. It's a plus. Next time it happends, just shake it off and tell her it's like that with most women and eventually it'll happen with her. Oh yeah, stop beating the meat.
 

MotoXXX

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hey buddy I have the same problem. It is not a problem though, think about this........what do most women hate? the minute man!! the only time this is bad is if you want a quikie, ya know. She loved it, and she will want it again and again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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WhitePimp

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Yeah it isn't really too much of a negative and it did make her all self conscious(she actually said I was the only guy she couldnt make come so she might try to step up her game a bit next time...:yes:)


I had a great time but it was almost like I wasnt even feeling much sensation which I thought was pretty weird, and we were drinking before so maybe that was part of it. I just want to jiz on her face
 

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Woohoo you answered your question,don't drink,don't masturbate,if that doesn't help go to a doctor,if he says you're fine go to a psychologist.
 

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Might be the "fit", if you know what I mean. Some girls are tighter than others... and some guys are skinnier than others.

The first time I EVER had sex it went on for like three hours, and I couldn't come.

It's not as easy for a guy as they'd have you think.
 

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are you on any drugs or anti-depressants? they make u not come and work more. 30 minutes ani't ****.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rebound Material

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WhitePimp said:
I just want to jiz on her face
:crackup: OMG! LOL!!! hahahahahahahaha!
 

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It's not really a problem, we just have (too) good stamina. One solution is going 400mph when you mount her (though you might still last half an hour). I've got it as well. If she's good at BJs then that'll work. Handjobs just don't work tho.
 

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Ive got the same problem too....but guy, it aint a problem, the ladies love it. the way that always gets me is doggy, takes a while, but it happens eventually. and if you still cant, just fake it.
 
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