Sex - possibly the only real commodity a woman has.

[Oxide]

Let's be honest, the only big thing we want from women is sex. Relationships, her cooking or doing laundry, is fine, but sex is always the biggest.

Now they know this, so let's set this up. They have something, a commodity X, that every single guy wants. Other girls have this commodity too, but there is still a lot of demand for hers, daily, everywhere, so she thinks it's worth a lot.

So it makes sense for her to get the best price for this commodity, the most value, before she gives it up. That's why some women are clearly going to string a guy, and some, if they realize that the guy can get this commodity somewhere else without any problem, will give it up much easier.

Now, what they do sometimes is throw sex in the mix knowing that all guys want it, but they also do it when they have nothing else to offer, or when they don't know what else to bring to the table, thinking this will make him jump!

How many times have you had a girl offer sex expecting you to run over or do something?

"You do this and you get the treat (sex). It's not worded like that but that's what it is. How many times have you been on dates where you didn't care about hanging out, you only wanted to bang the girl?"

If you turn it down she is puzzled, what else can she offer!?

Watch out for girls who think they have this highly prized possession and, more importantly, who think that's all it takes to get you and keep you. Make them realize that it take more to get a great guy like you than some little triangle that there are 3 BILLION more of on this planet.

Most importantly, with the girl you just want to bang, be honest and tell her this! Word it in a way that "we can hang out and enjoy each other's companies, but you either fvck or I walk" (smooth it out)

There is no point in doing all the dating nonsense when you do not want a relationship and are just looking for a good time. There are plenty of girls looking for the same.

 

[Miles28]

If it wasn't for sex I probably wouldn't bother talking to women. I'm not sure that I'd even acknowledge them. Would that it were not so but I have yet to meet a woman who was as interesting, funny, imaginative or cool to spend time with as any of a handful of my guy friends.

I think a lot of the time women don't understand this. They get a lot of attention from guys, invites to cool parties and are generally popular but they mistakenly ascribe this to having a good personality or some such similar nonsense. Many of these girls are as bland as porridge (just made that up) but their ego doesn't let them see it.

So coming back to your post, I couldn't agree more. Sometimes it's almost instinctive to lavish time and attention on a girl, where the end game is just to get her into bed But it's misguided, expensive and time consuming. Their commodity is overvalued and not as scarce as they think anyway.

 

[hansol]

Disagree. Playing mother to your children and keeping the home a decent place are more important. Any s l u t can shag, only the decent ones can be more.

Edit: sorry, just read the part about "having a good time". In that case, yeah, other than a fun time and a few laughs, sex is about all they can bring to the table. Then again, that's about all a guy can bring too when you think about it.

 

[BigJimbo]

You guys live in America. They don't know how or won't cook or take care of you and your children. You will have to change diapers, cook, clean, wash clothes, etc. Your lives will suck. You will get divorced and lose half of your money. You will be forced to marry a woman around your age who will proceed to tell you about her past sex life! She will have a foul mouth. Won't be cultured. I could go on and on. But hey! She will work and bring home a paycheck. Also will be banging a coworker. Sounds peachy. Just peachy.

 

[Oxide]

My point, may be not properly made, is that you should avoid women who think that sex is the only commodity she has (hence thinking all the guys want her since she is hot/and throws it at you if she wants you to do something) and look for the ones who have other things that she brings to the table, because that is where the juice is. You don't marry because of great sex, in fact someone I know did that and got divorced soon after. So while sex is the only thing on our minds, and the thing that makes us go hunt and put up with all the BS, we should actually be qualifying these girls very very often and hard to make sure she realizes we can get commodity X just around the corner.