"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Maybe you can add in a new verbal game too, to be told how to move or where to touch in a demanding voice is wonderful for many women. Tell her what she needs to do to you and make her beg for the like. Not always is it the words, but the tones that I find thrilling.
Maybe some new oils or outfits as well, nothing more fun then lifting the little school girl’s skirt or opening the business suit to find the thigh high lacy stockings.
Eat dinner off each other bodies; take advantage of the hot tub; ohh, the elevator can yield some very fun balancing sex…. I’ll stop now - Have a blast and leave the inhibitions at home! Enjoy
(P.S. If you give me her email I will add a few things to her bag of tricks that will leave you a tad stunned and grinning.)