nabster
Don Juan
Alright lads just a quick poll to gather some opinions regarding a debate me and a mate of mine were having. Which do you prefer: Having sex or getting a b.l.o.w.j.o.b? (man this yoke is retarded)
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Sex or bj?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
While I think getting a BJ feels better than having sex with a condom (I haven't had it bareback yet) I much prefer having sex. The desire to have sex is a primal urge. I have never wondered what a certain girls mouth feels like but I do think about how her pussy is going to feel.
nabster
Don Juan
Thats a good point Maxtro I've never had unprotected sex either. Maybe its just the condom which diminishes some sensation with sex
SandHawk
Master Don Juan
I prefer sex over a bj. Sure, a good BJ is pretty awesome, esp. if she finishes you off in her mouth while looking you deep in the eyes and swallows it, but sex is still preferable. A BJ every now and then is pretty awesome, or a combination of the two.
2crudedudes
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It really depends on the mood and how frequently I'm getting laid. I generally prefer a nice warm vag, but when I've been getting laid all week, sometimes that BJ just seems like a nice change of pace. Plus, I don't have to do anything other than get hard 
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DonJuanit0
Master Don Juan
After a good bj, I just wanna f*ck the sh1t out of her, so sex>bj
FrankieFunkinGamble
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I don't really like this poll. Usually when I get one, I expect the other.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I vote for bj as the guys said it's less work and less stress and you dont have to wonder if shes loving or not.
Dont know you guys but when i care about her orgasm its not cause i care of her but cause i wanna make sure to have some more in future.
Dont know you guys but when i care about her orgasm its not cause i care of her but cause i wanna make sure to have some more in future.
Just a Shot Away
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Never receiving a beej or never banging another chick for the rest of my life? I'll take oral any day of the week and twice on Sundays.
1) No work
2) Complete dominance
3) 0% chance of pregnancy
3a) No need to ever pull out
4) Far less chance of STD infection
5) Zero logistical concerns due to body shape/height, etc.
6) Staying in BJ territory reduces chance of clinginess/insanity triggers
7) Can get your rocks off in public (car, library, office, etc.)
8) No puss smell
9) LMR greatly reduced
10) Less jail time if it turns out she's underage
11) More acceptable in the Christian faith prior to marriage
I could go on, but I think it's pretty clear which act wins.
1) No work
2) Complete dominance
3) 0% chance of pregnancy
3a) No need to ever pull out
4) Far less chance of STD infection
5) Zero logistical concerns due to body shape/height, etc.
6) Staying in BJ territory reduces chance of clinginess/insanity triggers
7) Can get your rocks off in public (car, library, office, etc.)
8) No puss smell
9) LMR greatly reduced
10) Less jail time if it turns out she's underage
11) More acceptable in the Christian faith prior to marriage
I could go on, but I think it's pretty clear which act wins.
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
Some of these replies make me wonder if the posters even actually likes women beyond as ****toys.
Anyway, I'd prefer sex if I had to chose (assuming no condom) but really, a mix of the two is ideal.
Anyway, I'd prefer sex if I had to chose (assuming no condom) but really, a mix of the two is ideal.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Yup. If she has an open sore or cut it's possible for her to transmit the infection to your penis.San Jose California said:
falconslax89
Senior Don Juan
im sorry but no bj can beat the feeling of your bare **** going in and out of a tight pvssy
lorekeeper
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got some after a long time last night. its 50-50. I think I prefer BJ cause mainly, shes working on ME, but I also love it when I'm inside her and she's moaning like wild.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.