"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sex on period?

duttylove

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not sure if this has been posted before if so sorry.

is it safe to have unprotected sex when the girl is on her period?

if the girl is clean can you still contract aids or hiv from the blood contact? same as people mixing blood even though there both clean they can contract hiv.

please only reply if you do know somethign about this
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i'd say she can't since the egg is getting flushed out

but dude, don't stick it in her without a rubber when she's on the rag; that's nasty. i did it with my burd with a johnny on and got it all over my stomach and legs; mingin
 

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i'd say unless she has something already, you won't get anything
 

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there is a slight chance you could get an bacterial infection of sort, im not really sure.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jay-X

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Originally posted by duttylove
but what about contracting anything?
i did it lots of time with my girlfriend and nothing ever happened. i just remember once she had an incredibly huge period (lots of blood), my **** came out a bit dirty, but usually it's all clean (it can vary, depending on how much blood gets out of her).

it's impossible that she can get pregnant, unless the sperm stays there until she ovulates (which is usually at least 10 days after, while the sperm can stay there for no more than 6 days... anyway, young girls can ovulate much earlier or later than normal, so if yours is in high school, it could pretty risky. though, my girlfriend is 16 and we never had any problem with pregnancy, just fear when her period came late).

about STDs, i'm not very knowledgeable on the topic, but obviously it's impossible to contract HIV, or any other STD by that mean, if she's clean, dude... think about it, if she gives you a virus, she must have it first...

maybe you could get an infection, but it's nothing that i would worry about, since it's really rare
 

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To repeat.

You cannot contract a std from someone who doesn't have one.

Fvcking on a period is fine. just messy.

Make sure you use birth control every time. Don't take any risks.
 
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