"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sex on Friday

CORVETTE06

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my girlfriend wants to have sex with me for the first time on Friday.

(not my first time, the first time with me and her)

Everytime i bang a girl, i finish way too soon... like not even a minute.

I'm thinking that I should not jerk off for this whole week. this way i can bang her once (quick) and then recouperate in a couple hours and bang her again (long).

is this a stupid idea? will it work?

i dont know what to do to last longer....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pathgen

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With my last gf at first i was cumming before her. Then I learned that I could make her *** at the same time if I went slower and penetrated deeper inside of her.

Come to think of it im not sure if I cummed later or she did sooner.

Point is that i think not jacking off for a whole week will make things a bit worse because you will be pent up.

Have you tried googling it?
Here seems to be a good link
http://www.menshealth.com/cda/custo...wto.guides&cm_mmc=RSS-_-mhrsshealth-_-NA-_-NA
 

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Think about something else...like puppies or your grandma
 

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Get viagra if you can find it.

If not, levitra

if not cialis...

Otherwise be prepared, I never had issues like that before...I have problems with taking too long :( Whats nice about the three things mentioned above is you can bust and never stop or jump change rubbers and keep going.

Drink a lot of water
 

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Moofahsa said:
.... I never had issues like that before...I have problems with taking too long ....
I have a similar issue, and to make it worse my favorite plate cums in 90 seconds to maybe 4 minutes after I put it in. Then after 5-10 more minutes things start to dry up.

The only thing I can find (and this is part of what makes her so good) is that fortunately she loves to suck my unit, so we just do that until I get a good "head start" (oh, look, I made a pun) then we move on to the main event.

I'd still like to find a solution, but maybe I just need to train her to slow the heck down. It should be possible I think.

Other ideas?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Pathgen

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I have a similar issue, and to make it worse my favorite plate cums in 90 seconds to maybe 4 minutes after I put it in. Then after 5-10 more minutes things start to dry up.

The only thing I can find (and this is part of what makes her so good) is that fortunately she loves to suck my unit, so we just do that until I get a good "head start" (oh, look, I made a pun) then we move on to the main event.

I'd still like to find a solution, but maybe I just need to train her to slow the heck down. It should be possible I think.

Other ideas?
Or train yourself to speed up?
 

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I have the same prob with cumming way to after we start... I mean, 2 girls have already asked me if it was their fault for this and if I didn't really like them... I masturbate 2 - 3 hours before the event just to be sure! There are ways how to make it faster/slower though! There is a way to jerk and holding your *** while ready to ejaculate which helps you last longer! I agree with the guy that said before to google it... Don't hold your self for a week for no reason though... It will be much worst...
 

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Pathgen said:
Or train yourself to speed up?
Seems like a wasted effort - I like it to last a while ideally, it's pleasant getting to where you're going, enjoy the drive.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PRMoon

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Try not rushing into the sex part so much. Do some foreplay and stuff with her to calm you down while heating her up at the same time. Going in gung-ho guns a blazin' usually gets the business done a bit too quickly.
 

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I tried jerking off before fvcking and it didn't turn out well I was lasting really long. What else works for you to last longer when you feel you are about to bust pull out real quick. If you don't want her to think you are about to bust you can tell her lets change position or you can just tease her by pulling out.
 

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I heard slowing your breathing down and concentrating on how your breathing really helps. I always forget to try it.

Can anyone confirm this?
 

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thanks for all the tips.

i like the idea about training my self... and j/o beforehand..

instead of j/o beforehand i think im gonna bang her and tell her that im gonna be finished quick. then ill bang her again later in the night and last forever like the energizer bunny
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Oh btw use a condom. Lol not only will it make you safe, but you will last longer too!
 
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