F*ck them ASAP so you use your time efficiently
- You want to see what she looks like naked
- You want to know what they're like in bed
- You want to know whether her hygiene is good
- You want to level the playing field for future interactions, which happens when a woman gives sex
Guys,
don't blame women for having sex. Frisky women are by default good for men and only have the potential to be bad - but you can limit the extent of that damage to yourself both materially and mentally anyway, like by not throwing away cash on her or believing in soulmates. You can't have it both ways - either you're for women having sex or you're for virgin brides marrying for life. Why can't there be a middle ground? because what's the sexual difference between a girl who has f*cked a new guy every month for a year and one who has been f*cked by the same guy in a relationship for a year? sexually,
nothing. They're both getting railed, you're kidding yourself if you think your girl is somehow more "pure" because she's a relationship-girl. Once a woman's virginity is gone it's over, there are benefits and drawbacks to each standpoint and personally I make a distinction between and am for sexual women and against women (and men) with bad
character.
The difference is in the after-effects like probability of remaining faithful when they do commit and raising kids in positive family units, and behavioural issues but that doesn't make
sex bad, correlation is not causation. It also matters
why she is with you now - if she's had a lot of sex but she really likes you as a man and she genuinely wants to
give because she likes you so much, that's very different from a girl being with you because she's had her fill of guys who turn her on for now and wants a utility she can
take from. That's why I judge a woman by her
character and not how much sex she's had, which also lets me retain a positive mindset and enjoy life. I could make a bunch of links to
www.therationalmale.com to support and extrapolate my points but I hope my explanations are enough.
And if every girl was a virgin bridge until marriage and that's it, the world would be a much more stale, boring place - not to mention how lots of guys would complain about how women wont have sex.