"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sex on a first date

Do you try to bang the girl on a first date if she seems very into you?


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pyros

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So, do you try to bang the girl in the first date if she seems really into you?

Lately I am considering that I should be having sex on the first date, because more often than not I may go on a first date, things get really hot but if we do not fvck...it seems she will lose all interest, and probably wont see her again.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AttackFormation

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F*ck them ASAP so you use your time efficiently

- You want to see what she looks like naked
- You want to know what they're like in bed
- You want to know whether her hygiene is good
- You want to level the playing field for future interactions, which happens when a woman gives sex

Guys, don't blame women for having sex. Frisky women are by default good for men and only have the potential to be bad - but you can limit the extent of that damage to yourself both materially and mentally anyway, like by not throwing away cash on her or believing in soulmates. You can't have it both ways - either you're for women having sex or you're for virgin brides marrying for life. Why can't there be a middle ground? because what's the sexual difference between a girl who has f*cked a new guy every month for a year and one who has been f*cked by the same guy in a relationship for a year? sexually, nothing. They're both getting railed, you're kidding yourself if you think your girl is somehow more "pure" because she's a relationship-girl. Once a woman's virginity is gone it's over, there are benefits and drawbacks to each standpoint and personally I make a distinction between and am for sexual women and against women (and men) with bad character.

The difference is in the after-effects like probability of remaining faithful when they do commit and raising kids in positive family units, and behavioural issues but that doesn't make sex bad, correlation is not causation. It also matters why she is with you now - if she's had a lot of sex but she really likes you as a man and she genuinely wants to give because she likes you so much, that's very different from a girl being with you because she's had her fill of guys who turn her on for now and wants a utility she can take from. That's why I judge a woman by her character and not how much sex she's had, which also lets me retain a positive mindset and enjoy life. I could make a bunch of links to www.therationalmale.com to support and extrapolate my points but I hope my explanations are enough.

And if every girl was a virgin bridge until marriage and that's it, the world would be a much more stale, boring place - not to mention how lots of guys would complain about how women wont have sex.
 
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