"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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- Thread starter Baruch
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
typical
Master Don Juan
Thats a joke aye I tried it once and we ended up laughing for 10 minutes
Mac_Laaarry
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Friendly Otter
Don Juan
Some Sarah McLachlan songs are good for romance too, quite many of them in fact. If you want something in the background for some dirty hardcore, Nine Inch Nails has a few songs in that direction, like Like an Animal. One girl I know would play Foo Fighters, and it worked. Don't know what album it was.
If you want something calm: Katie Melua, Sarah McLachlan. But if you want something faster but not quite "hardcore" or trashy, I recommend the new kind of more vocal metal, "opera" metal if you will, mostly from Germany and Finland and the rest of our region, but there are also some American bands. I am talking about Within Temptation, Evanescence, Nightwish, QNTAL. You have to listen to them first though to determine if this is something for you.
Otherwise there's also classical music: Mozart's Requiem, if your girl likes it dark and cozy.
seanchai
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Bloke
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