MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
I think you're getting your squirrel nut in a knot here and taking this too seriously... Sexual state has everything to do with sex hence the name!!
Ok mum!!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sex is your biggest enemy-S.O.B. syndrome
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
squirrels
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I'm done...I'm not gonna start a flame war because you only read the words you want to read and not the whole sentence.
Royal Elite
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It's obvious by your relentless stance that thinking about sex all day is working for you. It's clear that you have multiple sex partners, and have little to no problem with women.
But for everyone else, the simple statement is:
If you keep doing what you have been doing, you will continue to get what you got.
The average guy has S.O.B. almost all day and yet the average guy does not get S.O.B. (sex on his balls) then Im guessing this isnt the way to go. The average guy gets flustered when he's in a position to get some and often acts the fool and gets none. So me personally I don't see how having Sex on the brain helps you.
Your sex drive is your sex drive, and you dont have to logical think about it for it to be what it is.
biker_gixxer
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There's something about those moments leading up to getting with a girl for the first (and potentially only) time that make the prelude to the waltz the best time I ever have with girls.
I couldn't agree with you more bro, it's one hell of a rush, kind of like the first kiss.
But anyway, on to the subject at hand. I think what our boy was trying to say boils down to 'control'. We all have S.O.B, even women (they just hide it better). However, only a few of us men have control over our emotions, which includes our sex drive. My sex drive is usually through the roof, like most guys on here. The difference is I know when to dial it up and turn it down. It's a skill that can be learned with time.
Show me a guy who acts clingly, needy, desperate and I'll show you a guy totally out of control.
Cool
Calm
Collected
Control
These are the 4 C's of dating, as I see it. Learn to master these 4, lets call them techniques and the rest will fall into place.
I couldn't agree with you more bro, it's one hell of a rush, kind of like the first kiss.
But anyway, on to the subject at hand. I think what our boy was trying to say boils down to 'control'. We all have S.O.B, even women (they just hide it better). However, only a few of us men have control over our emotions, which includes our sex drive. My sex drive is usually through the roof, like most guys on here. The difference is I know when to dial it up and turn it down. It's a skill that can be learned with time.
Show me a guy who acts clingly, needy, desperate and I'll show you a guy totally out of control.
Cool
Calm
Collected
Control
These are the 4 C's of dating, as I see it. Learn to master these 4, lets call them techniques and the rest will fall into place.
Royal Elite
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