"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sex is overrated

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Just go without it for two months, than come back and tell us what you think

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Having sex with the same girl make you tired of it,just like getting attention from the same guy make make her tired and willing to seek it outside.
 

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... Edit. I didnt realize i made the same post a few months back.
 

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I agree with all these points.. If it becomes routine, if it's a regular thing with the same person, it can get boring and you become desensitized to it. But I have had a relationship where we pretty much great sex until we broke up, and hooked up a couple times after that too over the years.

When I was with a girl for a while last year, she did some stuff that pissed me off, that was red flag material :box: Should have paid closer attention b/c it was those same issues that made me end it 6 months later. When we were still together though, I noticed that I had an emotional disconnect after I found out she had some "guy friends" that she texted all the time. And we all know what that means. But when we got together during that time, I was turned off, the newness and excitement factor was gone, plus I looked at her differently, and her personality became very annoying. All that, plus the routine, is when I felt that last.

But theres nothing like a couple months off and then meeting some new girls.. You'll find the excitement and desire again :cheer: .. but you may have to change some things around.
 

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mustfirstregister said:
Man, I have been having sex daily with my GF. I think I dont like sex anymore. What do you think about this issue?
you are not good enough at sex that is why she can do it so much yu need to break beer down properly so sh has to take some time to recover from your performance
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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