"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Man, I have been having sex daily with my GF. I think I dont like sex anymore. What do you think about this issue?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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go without it for a while... youll go insane like i am right now... i want ***** morning day an night.
 
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Man, I have been having sex daily with my GF. I think I dont like sex anymore. What do you think about this issue?
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Jerk off and think about whatever little fantasies that get you going.........the more you cvm when NOT thinking of your gf, the more novelty you will experience when fvcking her, even if it is daily.

Honestly, i'd rather NOT see the same girl every single damn day......id rather see her a maximum of twice a week, and just fvck her 3 times each time I see her...........seeing the same girl every single goddamn day is just numbing.

Give yourselves the gift of missing each other!!!
 
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The best part of dating is getting to the sex, not having it. I don't think I'm gonna even have sex with girls. Just tease them out of their minds and have them compete for me, hehehe. That sounds like a lot of fun.
 
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I think you should send her to my house and i will make sure to pick up where you left off.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sex is overrated (or so I hear), but that doesn't stop me from wishing I was actually getting some. You probably only stop caring about sex once you start getting it on a regular basis.
 
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Go for quality over quantity. I can get hard everyday, several times a day in fact, but my desire for sex comes in peaks and valleys. Also sex everyday is gonna become monotonous and a chore rather than fun.
 
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It's like when you were a kid. There was that toy that your parents just wouldn't buy you. you just totally obsessed about and on top of that, many people you knew had it!!Dammit! But! but then you got the toy. After a little while, it probably ended up eating up dust where nobody could see. We just never change, do we?
 
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Vitanoid said:
The best part of dating is getting to the sex, not having it. I don't think I'm gonna even have sex with girls.
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That's where my problem lies. For me, the "getting to" is ****ing boring as hell. Girls are just boring.

I think I may have to go Apocalypse and skip the rest.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sex is just like money and oxygen: it's easy to take it for granted when it's not scarce, but those that don't have it need it pretty badly.
 
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mustfirstregister said:
Man, I have been having sex daily with my GF. I think I dont like sex anymore. What do you think about this issue?
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Could be lots of things. A medical condition, depression, or just boredom.
Taking antihistamines or SSRIs can blunt sexual response, as can a host
of medical conditions. If performance and response hasn't changed
then something else has. What is that something? Figure that out
and go from there. See a health professional if necessary.
 
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Sex with the same girl everyday can get boring. Keep it fresh. Tease her like all hell, pin her down, pull her hair, spank her ass, spank her cl!t (seriously), throw her on your bed, hit it hard and fast, make her tell you how much she wants it, etc. If you and your girl are party people, try having sex on GHB or sex on MDMA + Viagra/Levitra.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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None of you are having good sex. End of story.I've been banging my ex on and off for 6 years and its never been boring...cuz we have AMAZING sex. Good enough sex where no there girls can compare.
 
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Lately, I don't want to have sex anymore. I don't know if I had too much or I just feel too tired to do it now. Do you guys feel just like me when having lots of sex?
 
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Sex is like air, it's not important unless you're not getting any. When I first lost it I thought "This is sex?" I hyped myself up for it and felt disappointed, and then started getting a lot of sex afterwards. But then I stopped talking to the girl I was getting it from and a month passed by I was like "FVCK I NEED PVSSY!!!"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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