"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sex is overrated

comic_relief

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Just go without it for two months, than come back and tell us what you think

- comic_relief
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Strelok

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Having sex with the same girl make you tired of it,just like getting attention from the same guy make make her tired and willing to seek it outside.
 

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... Edit. I didnt realize i made the same post a few months back.
 

The Inside Man

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I agree with all these points.. If it becomes routine, if it's a regular thing with the same person, it can get boring and you become desensitized to it. But I have had a relationship where we pretty much great sex until we broke up, and hooked up a couple times after that too over the years.

When I was with a girl for a while last year, she did some stuff that pissed me off, that was red flag material :box: Should have paid closer attention b/c it was those same issues that made me end it 6 months later. When we were still together though, I noticed that I had an emotional disconnect after I found out she had some "guy friends" that she texted all the time. And we all know what that means. But when we got together during that time, I was turned off, the newness and excitement factor was gone, plus I looked at her differently, and her personality became very annoying. All that, plus the routine, is when I felt that last.

But theres nothing like a couple months off and then meeting some new girls.. You'll find the excitement and desire again :cheer: .. but you may have to change some things around.
 

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mustfirstregister said:
Man, I have been having sex daily with my GF. I think I dont like sex anymore. What do you think about this issue?
you are not good enough at sex that is why she can do it so much yu need to break beer down properly so sh has to take some time to recover from your performance
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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