"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sex is overated.

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sodbuster

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EHHH, it's OK. It's just not as valuable as women would like you to think. I had a Kobe beef steak a month or so ago,it was better than sex. The ONLY people who believed me were men who have been with over 50 women. Women were INDIGNANT or said I need to "get some". SO, I tapped 2 women in the next 2 weeks...steak still won.
 

Die Hard

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The physical act is overrated, yes. But that doesn't go for the psychological effects.
 

Jack Wealthy

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I don't really go for it physically, but I agree with Die Hard that the psychological effects are impressive. Still; even though there is a lot better than it both physically and psychologically, it doesn't hurt to go for it. Unless I lack coordination that particular night.
 

st_99

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Its one of those things.. when you're getting it, meh, its not that big a deal, you move on from it mentally. When you're not getting it, you want to rip somebodys head off.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Sex is overated to the people that never have sex.
 

Gangster Of Love

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hahahaa. Good to know you finally lost the V card!!!
 

PapiChulo

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Hey, you are doing wrong. Depends on what kinda sex and with whom. I am a kinky bastard....P.S. Try fist-fuking a goat. ; )
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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pipe007

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some of you are really rationalizing the fact that it's hard to get some sex?
by making yourself belief that sex is overrated anyway?
or maybe you havent done it with a girl that blows your mind (head) away lol

i think sex is great!, I really get in the moment and enjoy every second of it, and I make sure she does too... why not?
 

5string

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Sex is overated. Heck, I didn't have any for almost 2 years at the end of my first marriage. Didn't even spank the weasel! Just got into other things of interest. Get it all the time now. You have to focus and direct your mind. If the pvssy rules your thoughts, so will women. That's not a good thing.
 
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