"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sex is not intended for use as entertainment

sylvester the cat

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We have a fundamental misunderstanding of the function of sex.

It is not intended for use as entertainment.

Sex is a function for creating new life. Other than that, it is also a function for creating life within our very selves. To incarnate our true selves.

When we deplete our elixir of life from without we destroy our life from within.

We are whole-heartedly encouraged by society to fornicate and use sex for entertainment. Our lives are constantly sexualised and we are ridiculed for not having sex or being virgins. This is no accident. It has been engineered this way. To destroy your souls.

We have become lascivious dogs constantly searching our next sexual fix but we are dead on the inside. We have become the living dead. Zombies. The rise of zombie flicks is also no accident. They are trying to tell us something.

Do with this what you will. I have done my part.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sylvester the cat said:
We have a fundamental misunderstanding of the function of sex.

It is not intended for use as entertainment.

Sex is a function for creating new life. Other than that, it is also a function for creating life within our very selves. To incarnate our true selves.

When we deplete our elixir of life from without we destroy our life from within.

We are whole-heartedly encouraged by society to fornicate and use sex for entertainment. Our lives are constantly sexualised and we are ridiculed for not having sex or being virgins. This is no accident. It has been engineered this way. To destroy your souls.

We have become lascivious dogs constantly searching our next sexual fix but we are dead on the inside. We have become the living dead. Zombies. The rise of zombie flicks is also no accident. They are trying to tell us something.

Do with this what you will. I have done my part.
:crazy:
 

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You, my friend, are a few fries short of a Happy Meal.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sylvester the cat

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Tictac said:
The planet did not get to 7,000,000,000+ people on the drive to 'create new life'.

Where do your ideas come from?
No, they got to 7000000000 plus by unrestrained desire and ignorance of their inner self. Read genesis chapter 1 and 2. Two different creation stories. The first your inner intellectual self, the second the material self.

According to Plato Ideas are innate.
 

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Yeah yeah Zombies...Aliens...whatever

I GOT NO PROBLEM WITH THAT SLY, JUST PASS THE BONG! :rockon:
 

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You guys may call sylvester crazy, but he's right, sex is a reproductive function. The fact that it is pleasurable is what makes people want to do it, which leads to reproduction, which makes the species successful.

It intrigues me that guys on this site often call things like morality, monogamy, societies, and cultures "unnatural", yet don't seem to have any problem with birth control.
 

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The fvck is this guy smoking? Dude lay off the PCP it's making you hallucinate.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yawn, nothing new. I find it amusing that people need theoretical knowledge to explain what's already obvious. We all know that sex serves a purpose, but it doesn't have to be limited to that. Having fun is in and of itself purposeless, it's just fun. To many people sex is fun. What's problematic is assuming you're dependent upon it to be satisfied with life, that's not really fun...
 

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Grewd said:
Yawn, nothing new. I find it amusing that people need theoretical knowledge to explain what's already obvious. We all know that sex serves a purpose, but it doesn't have to be limited to that. Having fun is in and of itself purposeless, it's just fun. To many people sex is fun. What's problematic is assuming you're dependent upon it to be satisfied with life, that's not really fun...
Not theoretical knowledge. Pure knowledge. Pure reason. This is not taught or encouraged in our schools.useless information is what they fill our heads with.
 

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Please explain to me how pure knowledge is different from any other knowledge, or how pure reason is different from any other reason. Reasons are reasons and knowledge is knowledge.
 

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So...are you saying that men and women are alike in the sense that riding the c0ck/pvssy carousel is a detriment to one's well being? This I can kinda agree with although I think men are more suited to it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Grewd said:
Please explain to me how pure knowledge is different from any other knowledge, or how pure reason is different from any other reason. Reasons are reasons and knowledge is knowledge.

Epistemically knowledge doesn't exist
 

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Grewd said:
Please explain to me how pure knowledge is different from any other knowledge, or how pure reason is different from any other reason. Reasons are reasons and knowledge is knowledge.
The knowledge and reason the Greeks (prophets) etc received was from a source. A source of pure knowledge and reason.

In order to tap into this source one needs to tune in.

IN order to tune in one must be detached from the phyiscal body to a degree.

IN order to detach from the physical body to a degree one must rise above sensual gratification which serves only to keep you in this flesh-type prison.

This is the real reason why sex and other sense gratification habits are frowned upon. It has nothing to do with being a prude. Nor what the church tells you who only want to keep you servile.

This is the real meaning behind:

King James Version (KJV)

JOhn 8:32 And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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