"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sex is difficult!

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Usually sex is easy and this is my first time with my virgin. ITS SO HARD! This is my third time trying with my virgin partner and I am struggling to get in. I tried oral getting her extremly wet didn't work. Strawberry flavored lube it didn't work and Im stressing. PLEASE HELP!!!
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ha ha...

The word is VIRGIN man.

I read that 4 times before I realized what you were trying to say.

"What version, is she the way too tight model of your blowup doll?"
 

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Anyway, I suppose I should try to help too.

I've never been with a virgin so take this with a grain of salt, but if wetness isn't the issue, which it sounds like it isn't, then she's either too tight or you can't break through her hymen.

Is she relaxed? Some women tense up to the point where it's physically impossible to penetrate.

Have you tried fingering?

Perhaps she should see the gynecologist.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dearl said:
Usually sex is easy and this is my first time with my version. ITS SO HARD! This is my third time trying with my version partner and I am struggling to get in. I tried oral getting her extremly wet didn't work. Strawberry flavored lube it didn't work and Im stressing. PLEASE HELP!!!
Send her to me bro. I'll get her nice and opened up for you.
 

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SmoothTalker said:
Ha ha...

The word is VIRGIN man.

I read that 4 times before I realized what you were trying to say.

"What version, is she the way too tight model of your blowup doll?"
Hey Dud don't laugh at him. He is not only the man who faced this problem, I also passed in that situation.
 

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Ugh, virgins.

I don't get why some guys love chasing them. The big + with them is at least you don't have to worry at all about picking up some nasty STD. :up:

I've done a couple & it was never very good. Give me an experienced woman who knows what she's doing lol. It's pretty cool when a girl can teach you some new tricks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No she isn't relax when we try. It seems as though she is calm when we she gets in the mood but when Im going to put it in thats when she complains about pain and being scared of it. I NEED A TIP OR SOMETHING
 

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Yeah, sounds like she needs to relax. She's all clenched up. You just have to find to get her to relax more.
 

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Unless you're looking for 'get her very drunk or give her some E', I don't think there are any tips quite as simple as you're looking for.

She needs to be comfortable, turned on.

Maybe a massage? Get her off a few times first. Most importantly, communicate. Is there some reason she gets scared? Perhaps she had a bad experience or can tell you what to try to calm her down.
 
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