"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sex indication???

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ok, back in the days names like kikkygirl or don juanita was easier to figure out they were females but now ... Who is? Is Iqqi a girl or I forgot the others names. Anyways - I can't distinguish no more.

Is there some ways your can have a 'sex' indication like the age u put in?

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i think there was a Shorty or shot something and its a girl..i THINK lol.
 

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Originally posted by Raven125
notice how it says shes in her early 20s?
Notice how it says you are 13?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Raven125
notice how it says shes in her early 20s?
if it says she's in her early 20s I wouldn't be askin this.
but it says 'early 20s' not he or she.

:rolleyes:

If u tried to be funny - u failed.
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
Notice how it says you are 13?
****ing owned. haha :)
 

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... Allen?

It's not sucha stupid idea.
 

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I agree that there should be a gender indicator, but at the same time it IS supposed to be an all-male forum, so I guess no one expected girls with issues and attention *****s would be posting as well.

Other sites I've been to that are supposed to be all female, do have a thing that asks male/female...

I put it in my signature just out of common decency, because I think you guys have a right to know that I'm female (as I've mentioned in the "Women in the Boards" threads).
 

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by stating sex we are sayin that this site is for both sexes when in reality it is for MEN

though there are a couple good lassies
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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