"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Epimanes

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How goes things? You guys listen to that podcast? What ya think of the primer?

For anyone interested in reading the primer. http://www.datafilehost.com/d/cabdfb74

If ya liked the primer.. I highly sugggest buying the MAP book as its just as insightful and motivating in an introspective way.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ThunderMaverick

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Going great :)

Her monthlies are coming up so it'll be a slow week, lol but before that we've both been pretty attentive and clear. Sex has been good and she initiated the last one. I haven't read the primer yet, but I did listen to the show. It's great because most of it was just confirmation on things I knew I needed to do.
 

Dritan

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Study kinesics, body language, facial expressions- Gregory Hartly, Paul Ekman, David Liebermann, all good authors.

Also, it's good to notice her tumescent cycle. Maybe I didn't spell that right, but I really don't care. Basically, when she starts getting *****y it's time to throw her down on the floor, tell her what a little ***** she is, suck on her **** and then **** her brains out.

The key to sex in a relationship does revolve around the female. Sorry, but true. ***** needs to be wet. For ***** to be wet, she needs to be turned on. You will only be turned on in response to her wanting your ****. Now you might get a little turned on, sure. But if you want a raging hard boner and if you want your s perm to hit her on the jaw when you pull out from the missionary position then the focus needs to be on getting her hot. Not on gently guiding her, or any of that new age bull****- getting her creamy, wet, dripping and wanting your hard **** inside of her. That's the ticket and you don't generally get there by being a limp wristed faggot about it.

You want proof that this hinges on her arousal?

Okay, on the count of three get an erection. Ready? 123 GO!


Nothing happend, huh?- your arousal depends on her. Her arousal also kinda depends on her getting grounded and pounded like the filthy little shut she is.
 
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