"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lishy

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Ok I change all of my advice after reading more about the OP's relationship!

She is not in love with you, she has lost the fancy for you, the girl wants to screw around and sounds like she is very hungry for attention!

Drop her like she's hot is my advice!

Go find the girl you deserve and not the town bike!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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[FONT=&quot]As much as I am against "giving up" on a relationship... I think that the relationship is only in your head.. She hasn’t treated you like she is in a relationship with you, and actions speak way WAY louder than words. Her actions are saying nice and load "I'm a slvt, I don’t respect you, I don’t love you, I use you when I feel like it, you might have been exciting in the beginning but now I’m bored and I need something new, you will have to do for now until something better comes along, give me an ego boost, give me attention (only when i want it), ........ the list can go on and on,,, but u catch my flow...[/FONT]​
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[FONT=&quot]If I were you, as hard as it may seem now, I would simply stand up for myself, show her that you deserve to be treated like gold, and if she cant do that then you'll find someone that will.

At the end of the day the girl that will be perfect for you will be that girl that will love you completely and unconditionally. She will appreciate everything about YOU (no1 else), and will act accordingly.

The sooner you leave the one you’re with now, the sooner u open that door for the right woman to walk into your life. :)[/FONT]
 
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