I know this has been asked before. I am looking for more opinions on this. I am currently dating a girl and things are quite wonderful. We havent had sex yet but things are slowly warming up between us. Shes had one guy in her life. He was a boyfriend of 2 years, and he lost his virginity to her and she lost hers to him. Shes was on birth control with him the whole time, and she said they used condoms only 10 times out of there relationship. Now this girl is really digging me. She is definately into me and i know she wants to have sex with me. She has been tested and is STD free, and she told me that she wants me to get tested as well. Now she hasnt gone off her birth control (the patch) ever since she started it 2 years ago. She is really serious about taking it as she firmly states that staying on it is the healthiest way for using birth control. i.e. going off and on it can cause health risks. So my question is since she is clean, and im gonna get myself tested, and if im clean, is it a possibility that we could be having sex without the use of condoms. And if we do should you be pulling out before you go?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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my girl is on the pill and i always pull out, better safe than sorry. plus, i love spooging all over her. 
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Oh for Gods sake. if she's on birthcontrol and both are STD free, FVCK AWAY LIKE CRAZY RABBITS.
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Yeah....what HE said!
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Well, well wait one minute there.
Has she been tested for HIV ? You do know there is a six month window period. She has to wait six months since her last sexual encounter with her ex for it to be an effective result.
When was your last sexual encounter? If longer than 6 months, then go get a blood test when you get your other STD/STI tests. Along with Hepititus C
If you are both clean of everything, then if she's been on the patch for that long, you SHOULD be fine. But i'd let her know to pay close attention to her ovulation cycles....if she's ovulating there is a change she could get pregnant on the patch. Rare, but it happens. Other than that, go for it.
Has she been tested for HIV ? You do know there is a six month window period. She has to wait six months since her last sexual encounter with her ex for it to be an effective result.
When was your last sexual encounter? If longer than 6 months, then go get a blood test when you get your other STD/STI tests. Along with Hepititus C
If you are both clean of everything, then if she's been on the patch for that long, you SHOULD be fine. But i'd let her know to pay close attention to her ovulation cycles....if she's ovulating there is a change she could get pregnant on the patch. Rare, but it happens. Other than that, go for it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.