"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sex help: Losing erection too quickly

mrgoodstuff

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I've noticed that since I've started taking Testosterone and estrogen blocker roughly 2 months ago, my erection Isn't as hard and my drive has gone down? I was horny af during July. Now, I couldn't give a flip, but I know women are interested or wanting my interaction and I'm half-heartedly giving it to them, just ho-hum. Cooler weather could be the problem, but my erection certainly isn't as Hard, more limp rather but I can certainly go a long time and I can certainly cvm. It's just the ejac itself isn't as pleasurable as well as it once was. I miss my young angst days of severe craving of po0n. It was torture back then and I masturbated like none other of course. Couldn't imagine it'd come to how I am today., just lack of desire, plus my options at the moment aren't too enticing, women aren't too enticing right now, far and few between. Hard to get aroused for anything but early-to-mid 20s, so I'm shut off at the moment.
You need to find a good lady who lights your jets who wants to take care of your c0ck.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Newbee2

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Don't wank

No porn

Raise your testosterone

Ashwagandha powder organic - taste bad, 1 tea spoon in a cup of tea with honey every night before sleep. Helps with sleep too

 

Poonani Maker

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Don't wank

No porn

Raise your testosterone

Ashwagandha powder organic - taste bad, 1 tea spoon in a cup of tea with honey every night before sleep. Helps with sleep too

Is that anything like TongKat Ali? I used that for a while bitter taste.
 

Newbee2

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Is that anything like TongKat Ali? I used that for a while bitter taste.
I don't know.. its from india, taste like wet horse or something.. but I been using this for years, and don't think about the taste anymore.

You will wake up with a morning erection

It helps with stress, low labido, cancer, sleep... maybe more, I don't know?
 

John9999

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(First off, yeah I've done a huge search, but couldn't find my question/problem...)

I'm having problems maintaining my erection. Not getting it, mind you, I have no probs there. But once I have it, I can only have sex for maybe 5-10 min tops before it starts to go.

My gf has been really cool, we're in a monog relationship w/o condoms. But it's starting to get to me because I haven't been able to make her orgasm consistently since we've been going out, simply because this keeps recurring.

Any help? I actually have some Viagra but that only helps somewhat. Any muscle clenching, mental clarity things, etc that people have had success with??

PS. I'm 28, don't smoke, drink mildly, and am in great shape
Man 28 is young fir this. I would recommend going to a male specialist. Get your levels tested. Could be low testosterone
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Suave88

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(First off, yeah I've done a huge search, but couldn't find my question/problem...)

I'm having problems maintaining my erection. Not getting it, mind you, I have no probs there. But once I have it, I can only have sex for maybe 5-10 min tops before it starts to go.

My gf has been really cool, we're in a monog relationship w/o condoms. But it's starting to get to me because I haven't been able to make her orgasm consistently since we've been going out, simply because this keeps recurring.

Any help? I actually have some Viagra but that only helps somewhat. Any muscle clenching, mental clarity things, etc that people have had success with??

PS. I'm 28, don't smoke, drink mildly, and am in great shape
Let me ask you a stupid question. Are you fvcking someone else and coming home tired to **** your wife?
 
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