Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Sex help: Losing erection too quickly

Hot Ice

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Re: woody

Originally posted by cave dweller
I think you are 'banging' her too much.
Since you refuse to hold off for a month try it for one week.
I would say after a week, with no sex, that you could get and maintain a good 'woody'.

my 2 cents

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AND NO DAMN MASTURBATION!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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polish_bear_65

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there are some legitimate physical problems like blood pressure and diabetes that can influence erections. Hypoglycemia as well. a chief psychological problem is anxiety.
Agree. I'd definitely consider a medical exam.
 

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I think you should have a more sexual aggressive thought pattern when with her. Even though you may love her dearly, think VERY sexually aggressive thoughts when you are having sex.
 

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It happened to me only twice in more than 30 yrs, both the cases I didnt particularly liked the girl.

I believe it depends on your libido and stress rather than physical reasons, can you keep your erection while jerking off to your favourite hottie?
 

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(First off, yeah I've done a huge search, but couldn't find my question/problem...)

I'm having problems maintaining my erection. Not getting it, mind you, I have no probs there. But once I have it, I can only have sex for maybe 5-10 min tops before it starts to go.

My gf has been really cool, we're in a monog relationship w/o condoms. But it's starting to get to me because I haven't been able to make her orgasm consistently since we've been going out, simply because this keeps recurring.

Any help? I actually have some Viagra but that only helps somewhat. Any muscle clenching, mental clarity things, etc that people have had success with??

PS. I'm 28, don't smoke, drink mildly, and am in great shape
Horny goat weed
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Best thing for your c0ck and libido is a female that you find attractive enough who strongly desires you in turn.
 

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(First off, yeah I've done a huge search, but couldn't find my question/problem...)

I'm having problems maintaining my erection. Not getting it, mind you, I have no probs there. But once I have it, I can only have sex for maybe 5-10 min tops before it starts to go.

My gf has been really cool, we're in a monog relationship w/o condoms. But it's starting to get to me because I haven't been able to make her orgasm consistently since we've been going out, simply because this keeps recurring.

Any help? I actually have some Viagra but that only helps somewhat. Any muscle clenching, mental clarity things, etc that people have had success with??

PS. I'm 28, don't smoke, drink mildly, and am in great shape
Pornography and masturbation can screw with your dopamine release and may cause erectile dysfunction.

I had the same problem for a long time. I started no fap. Problem went away. If you look at the stats it’s crazy how many guys are getting ED because of jerking off to porn. And there are sounds scientific reasons for it.

Because you get morning wood. Can beat it no problems. Got healthy medical check. I would bet money that no fap fixes your issue. There’s even TED talks about it lol.
 

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Pornography and masturbation can screw with your dopamine release and may cause erectile dysfunction.

I had the same problem for a long time. I started no fap. Problem went away. If you look at the stats it’s crazy how many guys are getting ED because of jerking off to porn. And there are sounds scientific reasons for it.

Because you get morning wood. Can beat it no problems. Got healthy medical check. I would bet money that no fap fixes your issue. There’s even TED talks about it lol.
Yep fap is a mofo. Train your mind to be used to real life sexual activity.
 

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Best thing for your c0ck and libido is a female that you find attractive enough who strongly desires you in turn.
You are correct! That's exactly what I have now and it works great.
 

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You are correct! That's exactly what I have now and it works great.
Keep on fvcking. After about 10 or so sessions you will be mostly restored. Never return to the holes or activities that degraded your c0ck strength ( bitchy gfs, fapping, etc ). Your girl should desire you strongly enough that she wants you all the time. Thats so healthy for your c0ck....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Guys-the thread is from 2004. The dude hasn't been seen since 2005!!!
 

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And that's what I like about forums. Leaving your comment on a matter nobody has cared about for 15 years now.
 

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:p Lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Take zinc and magnesium, lift weights, and don't jerk off I've been doing this for months now and i can't keep it down
 

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Take zinc and magnesium, lift weights, and don't jerk off I've been doing this for months now and i can't keep it down
Hangs good too. Allow sexual activity to provide the release. Because you will recieve a testosterone and confidence boost.
 

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I've noticed that since I've started taking Testosterone and estrogen blocker roughly 2 months ago, my erection Isn't as hard and my drive has gone down? I was horny af during July. Now, I couldn't give a flip, but I know women are interested or wanting my interaction and I'm half-heartedly giving it to them, just ho-hum. Cooler weather could be the problem, but my erection certainly isn't as Hard, more limp rather but I can certainly go a long time and I can certainly cvm. It's just the ejac itself isn't as pleasurable as well as it once was. I miss my young angst days of severe craving of po0n. It was torture back then and I masturbated like none other of course. Couldn't imagine it'd come to how I am today., just lack of desire, plus my options at the moment aren't too enticing, women aren't too enticing right now, far and few between. Hard to get aroused for anything but early-to-mid 20s, so I'm shut off at the moment.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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