"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do i get my gf to have sex during her period? Stopping for an entire week suuuuckks.

My other gfs had sex during their periods. I don't want to during the big flood of the first 2-3 days but a tiny bit of extra fluid in the latter light days can't do much but help things along.

The funny thing is that she *****es and moans about not being able to have sex for a week. She goes as far as begging to schedule a day when we can have sex again. "can i come over tuesday? please? can i have it? 5 times?"

If you want it so bad let's just DO IT. I almost want to tell her i'm tired or something the day after her period ends just because she shouldn't get to be the only one to decide when we get to have sex or not. Yup, yesterday was her last day and now i'm expected to just pony it up tonight. Not that i don't want to screw her for 6 hours tonight, but part of me is like screeewwww you you made me wait a week. :)

Yeah, i know all about "blow job" week but it's hardly the same because the girl isn't as into it knowing that we can't go any further and it's harder to initiate. "Hey you, suck it" doesn't sound so hot. And my gf now just gets more frustrated because giving bjs/handjob type things just turns her on and she can't (female word for "won't") have sex. She gave me a bj on saturday morning and went home and later tells me she masturbated as soon as she got home. Hello, i coulda done that for you.

don't really see the point of this post but it's on my mind =p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Next time she's on a period just begin doing all the moves. If she's worried about the mess, do it in the shower. Don't talk about it if you can avoid it and just get into the moment. Words leave too much to be discussed and take away from sexy-time.
 
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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Next time she's on a period just begin doing all the moves. If she's worried about the mess, do it in the shower. Don't talk about it if you can avoid it and just get into the moment. Words leave too much to be discussed and take away from sexy-time.
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All the normal moves? Which part of normal sex involves tampon removal?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Extreme Bumming
It's hard to get her in the mood during that time. Maybe she wants to, want to, have sex.

Almost like, they want to be horny.

I have no idear.

Actually I dunno, you say she masturbated when she got home...hmm
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My gf is ALWAYS in the mood. She wants it more than I do. I have no idea where she gets this will power during her period. Her fear of me seeing an inkling of blood is more than her normal insatiable appetite for the c0ck?
 
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Originally posted by chance
why would you want blood on your dik?
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Why would i want my own come on it after i pull out during the other 3 weeks of the month?

I don't. But, the upsides outweighs the downsides.
 
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I once went down on a girl on her period.
I don't talk about that though.
 
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yeah...umm....you can go for it dude...but.....this is going to sound weird but it would suck more than not (and i don't mean that in a literal sense....but the literal sense would be your best bet) You don't want that stuff on you....and yes girls get horny during their period just like any other time.....but.having sex would not be very cool. ...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by mrRuckus
Why would i want my own come on it after i pull out during the other 3 weeks of the month?

I don't. But, the upsides outweighs the downsides.
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i'd rather my own *** than someones blood. you are a sick mother fuker.
 
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Originally posted by thatguyinaviators
yeah...umm....you can go for it dude...but.....this is going to sound weird but it would suck more than not (and i don't mean that in a literal sense....but the literal sense would be your best bet) You don't want that stuff on you....and yes girls get horny during their period just like any other time.....but.having sex would not be very cool. ...
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Like I said, all my other gfs had no probs with sex during period.
 
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I have ran into this as well and I just had to keep leting her know that it wasn't no thing. Try to imagine how self concious you would be. Bleeding on sombody especially from your genatals. It is worse than letting sombody pick your nose or somthing like that.

I agree that talking kills the sexy time but this is one topic that you should talk about. If nothing else just let her know that you know it is a natural thing and it doesn't bother you like she is afraid it will.
 
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Originally posted by zerocelcius

I agree that talking kills the sexy time but this is one topic that you should talk about. If nothing else just let her know that you know it is a natural thing and it doesn't bother you like she is afraid it will.
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Haha, all week i've been telling her i don't care about the blood every time she's like " ohhhh i wish we could do it." Same thing i say here. "just another fluid in the mix!"

Talking doesn't kill sex. I have conversations during sex all the time. Granted, it's not about the weather or something mundane but i have no reservations about cracking a joke and us breaking into fits of naked laughter.
 
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Originally posted by mrRuckus
Why would i want my own come on it after i pull out during the other 3 weeks of the month?

I don't. But, the upsides outweighs the downsides.
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i'd rather my own *** than someones blood. you are a sick mother fuker.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by chance
i'd rather my own *** than someones blood. you are a sick mother fuker.
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Aren't you the one posting about having sex with 16 yo little girls?
 
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personally, i like a girl who won't have sex during her period, it shows that A. she has will power. B. she is somewhat reserved and not a complete ***** (even though it is just me)

i guess if she's up for it and you are too...then go for it...........but if she doesn't want to, then she doesn't want to. that's not really a don juanable situation.......it's her period so respect her wishes.
 
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Originally posted by Hunchback
I once went down on a girl on her period.
I don't talk about that though.
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do tell...
 
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Originally posted by thatguyinaviators

......but if she doesn't want to, then she doesn't want to. that's not really a don juanable situation.......it's her period so respect her wishes.
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Ok then when she comes over tonight i'm just gonna tell her i don't want to have sex.

I'm not gonna be her lap dog who sits around for a week waiting for the sex train to pull back in right on her schedule.

She can respect MY wishes too.
 
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ok squiemish lil ones. blood is no diffrent than any other body fluid.

And sex is theraputic for woman during their period. It helps with cramps and headaces.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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