"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sex - do you prefer a hot body or a girl with more experience

JdelaSilviera

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Past week I was fortunate to bed a 18 yo, with one of the sexiest butts I ever seen, I'm very glad I had this experience. This is the kind of girl I would never have a chance with in high school being myself a late bloomer.

I have slept with women from 16 (when I was that age) to 32, and the most intense sex was with this past week girl. Women can never be sexier than 18-23, and although I think experience in sex for guys is somewhat important regards ejaculation control, not so much about position since I find sex a pretty simple easy thing to do. With women, it seems my pleasure comes 90% from my arousal with their body, older women do know more positions, but it's almost irrelevant to me really. I don't care to see their flacid boobs and butt from different positions.

If a woman is hot, and wants to give you pleasure she will take you to the moon.

What's your view?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JdelaSilviera

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Mike32ct said:
Women only need experience for BJs.

The rest doesn't count. It doesn't take experience to lie on your back and say "Don't stop. Don't stop." LOL

So yeah, looks are probably better.
LOL. Almost as good as your fat friend who picks up guys online by their **** size ;).

For the others, yes this could be a younger vs older thread... but some young girls have more experience, and some older women are hotter than young chicks.

Some girls take "pride" in being sexually experienced, when their bodies are terrible, for me women can have all the experience they want, but an athletic hot body, with less "knowledge" is better for me as long she is engaged and aroused..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mike32ct

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JdelaSilviera said:
LOL. Almost as good as your fat friend who picks up guys online by their **** size ;).

For the others, yes this could be a younger vs older thread... but some young girls have more experience, and some older women are hotter than young chicks.

Some girls take "pride" in being sexually experienced, when their bodies are terrible, for me women can have all the experience they want, but an athletic hot body, with less "knowledge" is better for me as long she is engaged and aroused..
The fat friend has a new "date" from online almost weekly. But she also insists that she hasn't gotten any in two years lol.
 

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I just like a woman to dedicate herself to blowjhobs. As long as she can blow me awesome, everything else falls into place nicely.

Young girls tend to be a little silly when it comes to sex. And older women can be a little vulgar sometimes. I just want some dedication...
 

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Damn, can't relate. I'll admit that I've never smashed a chick of your description. As far as relationships are concerned I figure fvcking the same pvssy over and over again will lose some of it's appeal regardless of whether it's a 10 or a 6 so I might as well look for qualities that'll make her good relationship material first. Looks come in a close second. As far as experience is concerned any chick can be taught. Most of the fun depends on whether she's enthusiastic, enjoying herself and willing to please.
 

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The answer is subjective, because sex is inside your head, it's what your brain draws. What turns you on is subjective. For some the fear of getting caught is what's hot, for others the danger side of it, it's not just hot body or older body.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bayne05

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Sucking d!ck is the only thing she needs to master. I don't mind doing all the work when fvcking a girl, she can just lie there and not do sh!t for all I care, more fun for me!(killer workout:up:) I would go for hot body, experience would be a bonus
 

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I know a fat chick who's slept with a bunch of dudes but I don't want any of her experience. If a chick you're banging isn't that experienced with positions, teach her to have some experience with new positions. That will turn her on even more and she will think you're a stud. As long as your d1ck is getting wet with a girl with a hot body, why would you care when you're bending her over making her cvm?
 
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