Sex and the city and the relationship dynamic

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

KarmaSutra

Banned

Jul 25, 2007

Microphone Fiend said:
I wouldnt say its a must watch for the male characters, but moreso relationship dynamics as the OP said and just the psyche of an array of women.

I like the show because of its up-tempo, witty, approach to everything, but I guess you can also find some seduction related ideas in it also

Athough the show doesn't cater as much to the men as they do the female, there are true to life embodiments of the male libido written into even the most minor of male characters.

And if you listen to what the women say they'll pretty much lay out what it is successful women want from a man. Not the bullsh!t, chivalrous fairy tale stuff but the truth; The ugly truth.

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.