Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Kenturkey

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Depends on what you're looking for... I place a HIGH percentage on it myself.

But, in the immortal words of Mr. Garrison, "I just wanna hang out and screw hot chicks."

:woo:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Sex is only that important in a relationship when there are problems in the relationship (ie - lack of sex). Think about it, when things are going along well in a relationship, is sex an issue?
 

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I disagree that it is that important for some people (ESPECIALLY WOMEN)

For me it's important and I've had women act like nymphos for me for several weeks and then dump me anyways. So if it was the most important thing to the girl and by all things sexual she's happy why would she dump me. Simple, theres somethng more than sex for the girl.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Sex is only that important in a relationship when there are problems in the relationship (ie - lack of sex). Think about it, when things are going along well in a relationship, is sex an issue?
Then why do women want to date men? Just so they can take them to places, fool.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
Then why do women want to date men? Just so they can take them to places, fool.
By the complete lack of relevance of your statement, it's obvious that you do not understand what we are talking about.
 

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It's important but not 95% of the relationship. Usually if there is an issue with sex, there is a bigger problem with the relationship.

The question is going to have many different answers.
 

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lol 95%, I dont think anyone actually beleives that! Noone that has been in a serious LTR anyways! Everyone knows, after years and years, the sex dies down to a couple of times a week on average, a few at most. Many couples I know, sometimes only once every couple of weeks, and other times not for months! And these couples are HAPPY! Definately matters, is a huge part of the relationship at first, but eventually doesnt account for much other than a bit of fun!
 
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Originally posted by lurker
Last week I went to a poetry spot and the host said that sex is 95% of a relationship and many ppl. agreed with him. Now be honest ya/ll, to what extent do YOU agree with his statement? A lot of ppl. say it's the chemistry that matters but then turn around and say "but if the sex is bad, there isn't a chance" so what's that about? isn't a relationship all about love, support and companionship anymore? or all they all weighed the same against sex?
Well, in my opinion. If a couple has chemistry, then the sex will be good anyway. That's what chemistry is, a connection with each other, an understanding of each other. That's been my experience anyway.
 
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