"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sex and Physical Contact forum?

Would we benefit from a Sex/Physical Contact forum?

  • Yes, i think we would benefit and I would be able to contribute

    Votes: 6 42.9%
  • Yes, I think we would benefit but i wouldnt be able to contribute

    Votes: 2 14.3%
  • No, I dont think we would benefit from such a forum

    Votes: 5 35.7%
  • No opinion

    Votes: 1 7.1%

  • Total voters
    14

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Would we benefit from a Sex and Physical Contact forum? Answer the poll honestly.

Sex questions, techniques, kino escalation, kissing, closing etc.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No. I used to be for new forums but not so much anymore.

For questions on sex and physical contact that would to in the dj forum or hsdj if you are younger. Tips would go in tips.

I would think the only way a new forum on just about anything would open up would be if a certain topic was flooding the forum for a while.

There was a while where there were lots of financial questions here in AE, but those are few now. So no new forum.

Thats my guess
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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