"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sex and intimacy during a LTR

Vincent Freeman

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For all you who have been in a LTR or even a hook-up relationship that's long term, after 4 years is it typical for the girl to be less into sex and intimacy? I mean she still does it but its harder to get her started. Meaning you have to do more work to get her in the mood as oppose to before when she was always in the mood? Let me know your guys opinion on this one. If so, what are some suggestions to improve this situation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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joekerr31

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if you had to watch the same porn over and over and over and over, eventually it would be a waste of your time.

same thing?
J
 

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If your favourite food is pizza and you eat pizza every day yes you'll eat pizza but you won't eat as much of it.

So to answer your question. Yes.
 

DonJuanMonk

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It doesn't take much, usually a lot of people say spicing up a sex life would be:

1. Doing quickies right the chance you get to see her

2. Public sex, banging in the car, children's playground, etc.

3. Sex clubs, where you fuk strangers and allow your ho to be splashed with jizzim from other homos.

Shiat like that foo, What do you do to your boring ass hamburger, you spice it up.
 
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