"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sex and intimacy during a LTR

Vincent Freeman

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For all you who have been in a LTR or even a hook-up relationship that's long term, after 4 years is it typical for the girl to be less into sex and intimacy? I mean she still does it but its harder to get her started. Meaning you have to do more work to get her in the mood as oppose to before when she was always in the mood? Let me know your guys opinion on this one. If so, what are some suggestions to improve this situation?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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joekerr31

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if you had to watch the same porn over and over and over and over, eventually it would be a waste of your time.

same thing?
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If your favourite food is pizza and you eat pizza every day yes you'll eat pizza but you won't eat as much of it.

So to answer your question. Yes.
 

DonJuanMonk

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It doesn't take much, usually a lot of people say spicing up a sex life would be:

1. Doing quickies right the chance you get to see her

2. Public sex, banging in the car, children's playground, etc.

3. Sex clubs, where you fuk strangers and allow your ho to be splashed with jizzim from other homos.

Shiat like that foo, What do you do to your boring ass hamburger, you spice it up.
 
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