Sex and Intelligence

[speakeasy]

Sex and IQ

It's interesting that studies have shown that there's a high correlation between low IQ and a greater number of sexual partners(to a point of course, if you are retarded, you probably aren't getting any action). The higher you go up the IQ scale, the less amount of sexual partners you'll have over your lifetime, the later you'll have lost your virginity, kissed or held hands with a girl for the first time, etc. Of course this doesn't describe everyone, but science has proven the general trend.

http://www.gnxp.com/blog/2007/04/intercourse-and-intelligence.php

The article concludes that testosterone is the key. Higher IQ people have less testosterone, and testosterone levels highly correlate with the age someone begins sexual activity and how many partners they have through their life.

You would think though that intelligence would be a good thing for getting ass as it would make you more witty, sharper, give you better responses when talking to girls, let you think on your feet better.

 

[intheRed]

That was an interesting read and for the most part I agree with it. There's always exceptions though, like anything in life....

 

[azanon]

I score usually about 140. My reasoning for overall fewer sexual partners was 1. Risk adverse (unwanted pregnancies, permanent STDs like Herps) and 2. Too busy focusing on being successful (studied a lot with school and outside school) and of course 3. I got married early (to a wonderful, sexy woman).

In the end, i was successful - lower partner #, but I am relatively successful today, created no unwanted pregnancies, and have no permanent STDs.

I'm of the opinion this site probably downplays too much the significant risks associated with a highly active, multiple partner sexual lifestyle. That's not to say I'm not advocating not being a DJ, but I do think men really need to be careful. Take that thread about Tom Leykis where he was discussing women who'd actually take your c** out of a condom and shove it up in them. Fellows, the stakes are high and condoms aren't perfect protection from everything - not even close.

With this in mind, I like the idea of using DJ skills to, say, find an outstanding, beautiful, intelligent, maybe even rich lifelong partner. I like the idea of using DJ skills in a long-term relationship to maintain happiness, financial balance, and household stability. There are a lot of wonderful uses for being a DJ that transcend simply how many partners you can score over a lifetime. I've been married over 15 years and I still absolutely love f****** my hot, bad-girl wife.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I score usually about 140.

me too. And my total number of partners is pretty low, but that's because I tend to be in long term relationships. That could be part of the statistical results. Maybe smart people are better at holding relationships together.


I'm of the opinion this site probably downplays too much the significant risks associated with a highly active, multiple partner sexual lifestyle.

Sosuave? This site? I think just the opposite. Guys here tend to think that girls have cooties, and they are overly scared of sex. I see threads here like "I licked her pvssy. What STDs do I have now?"

Although I am not advocating that everyone behave like me, fwiw, I have not used a condom since I was 19, and have had several pretty slvtty girlfriends. So far, so good. The best defense against STDs is the same as the best defense against cheating - interest level. If a girl is really into you, she will be up front and honest about her STDs, because she cares enough about you to not want to infect you.

 

[speakeasy]

I score usually about 140.

me too. And my total number of partners is pretty low, but that's because I tend to be in long term relationships. That could be part of the statistical results. Maybe smart people are better at holding relationships together.

I think I've read that too before. High IQ correlates with fewer partners but higher compatibility.

 

[user43770]

Excuses.

 

[DJDamage]

Albert Einstein's IQ was between 160 and 180 and he was messing around.

 

[bigjohnson]

Excuses.

For? Everyone sounds pretty satisfied with what they are getting seems like.

 

[azanon]

I'm of the opinion this site probably downplays too much the significant risks associated with a highly active, multiple partner sexual lifestyle.

Sosuave? This site? I think just the opposite. Guys here tend to think that girls have cooties, and they are overly scared of sex. I see threads here like "I licked her pvssy. What STDs do I have now?"

I guess we're keying in on different threads. The ones that come to mind to me are the masses claiming 40 or more conquests, with several claiming over 100. THB, i assume every one of these guys probably (key word there) have .......... something - whether they know it or not. The ones reading and identifying with this are thinking, "no I don't", while they inadvertently ich downstairs not even realizing they've done that for years now.

I don't visit the high school threads, BB. Is that where you're seeing the cootie threads?

Although I am not advocating that everyone behave like me, fwiw, I have not used a condom since I was 19, and have had several pretty slvtty girlfriends. So far, so good. The best defense against STDs is the same as the best defense against cheating - interest level. If a girl is really into you, she will be up front and honest about her STDs, because she cares enough about you to not want to infect you.

I'm glad you reminded me of this. I freaking hate condoms and knowing me - if i were single - I'd probably take the risk without one all the time. Yes, I know that's insane, and that's why I'm ultimately glad I found a lifelong partner.

You can use that 140 to minimize your risks, and I presume you do just that, but again the key word is minimizing risk, not eliminating it. The best defense is actually monogamy (not counting abstinence, obviously). What you described is already considerably more risky.

 

[azanon]

Albert Einstein's IQ was between 160 and 180 and he was messing around.

IQ and insanity are mutually exclusive. Actually, I suspect they're slightly positively correlated.

 

[azanon]

For? Everyone sounds pretty satisfied with what they are getting seems like.

Exactly. I'm happily married, though sure I sometimes fantasize about the grass on the other side of the fence; being able to date and f*** whom I please. But, you know, I have single guy friends that know me who date a lot, but are still envious of my position. I suspect we'd all like to have both situations at the same time!

 

[speakeasy]

Exactly. I'm happily married, though sure I sometimes fantasize about the grass on the other side of the fence; being able to date and f*** whom I please. But, you know, I have single guy friends that know me who date a lot, but are still envious of my position. I suspect we'd all like to have both situations at the same time!

For real. I'd feel less apprehension about settling down with a woman if having a mistress was morally and culturally acceptable. In some places it is acceptable. I just can't imagine only seeing one pvssy for the rest of my life. Watching that poon get wrinkled and floppy with age. I totally understand why some people want to have open relationships. Then you have the best of both worlds. Not that it's necessarily my thing, I just understand where they're coming from.

 

[bigjohnson]

Exactly. I'm happily married, though sure I sometimes fantasize about the grass on the other side of the fence ....

Putting imaginary notches on a headboard is for insecure little boys with something to prove. I'm all about getting what I want, being happy and satisfied. I'm spinning 4 right now but honestly I've all but let 2 fall and I'm contemplating rewarding my top girl with (gasp) every womans wish, exclusivity. She's earning it, believe me.

For real. I'd feel less apprehension about settling down with a woman if having a mistress was morally and culturally acceptable. In some places it is acceptable. I just can't imagine only seeing one pvssy for the rest of my life. Watching that poon get wrinkled and floppy with age. I totally understand why some people want to have open relationships. Then you have the best of both worlds. Not that it's necessarily my thing, I just understand where they're coming from.

Ya, this girl understands and has suggested 3-somes with some of her girlfriends to keep it fresh. For now I'm keeping it a little less freaky than that but who knows?

 

[user43770]

For? Everyone sounds pretty satisfied with what they are getting seems like.

This study will no doubt be used as an excuse by those who aren't seeing success.

 

[user43770]

Putting imaginary notches on a headboard is for insecure little boys with something to prove.

Or, maybe I just enjoy fvcking different women.

 

[SmoothTalker]

Azanon, I'm not sure you know the meaning of mutually exclusive.

As for intelligence and sex, I don't think it hurts you unless you over think everything.

 

[bigjohnson]

Or, maybe I just enjoy fvcking different women.

Fair enough but that's not the point at all - what's with the obsession with keeping count? Do we count and log ALL our bodily functions now?

 

[azanon]

Azanon, I'm not sure you know the meaning of mutually exclusive.

.... or I just lost you with that comment. It wasn't for everyone ;-)

As for intelligence and sex, I don't think it hurts you unless you over think everything.

You don't think it hurts? Are you asking us to just trust your gut, or do you have some research to counter the linked study?

 

[The Bat]

You would think though that intelligence would be a good thing for getting ass as it would make you more witty, sharper, give you better responses when talking to girls, let you think on your feet better.

That's why there is two types of smarts: street smart and book smart.

Most of those math/chem nerds are book smart yet lack street smartness aka social intelligence.

On the other hand, studio art majors are very socially intelligent and creative (thus are wittier, sharper, and give better responses when talking to girls). But obviously they can't do derivatives or determine pH from a titration curve.

And I'm not sure how much of the inverse relationship between testosterone and IQ I buy. People like me, Colossus, and Rollo all have high testosterone and high IQ, and we've gotten laid plenty of times that, and I can only speak for myself here, I stopped keeping count after 50.

Interesting study, nonetheless.

 

[azanon]

I know you didn't actually say this, but to be clear, I don't personally equate social intelligence with your laid number. The guys that impress me to this day are the ones that currently have a "bang" sweet girl - hot, intelligent, maybe rich, dignified, etc. If you have just one of those, you get my thumbs up.

We have trash hoes all throughout our state to rack up a tally on, if that approach suits your fancy. Any redneck here can rack up a high hoe tally.