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Has anyone experienced this? I think I may have it.

I will happily bang constantly. The crazy girl who banged on my door last week has just left my house over an hour ago and I'm ready to jump this laptop to watch porn, even knowing I'm going to some girls house in 5 hours to drink wine eat pizza and bang.

She said I'm sex crazy, as long as my d1ck isn't sore I will want sex. I can obviously leave it and a couple week ago I went 2 weeks without sex and felt fine, it's not a need, but I can go all day.
 

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"sex addiction" isn't a medically recognized illness in America. There's no diagnosis criteria.

So you are in the clear as far as that goes.

You have a high libido and are enjoying yourself. Like @Amante Silvestre said, if it isn't interfering with you having a productive life, there's nothing to worry about.
 

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Wanting to bang multiple women in the same day is pretty normal.

It's only abnormal when you just want to bang the same woman multiple times per day, on a daily basis.
 

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Wanting to bang multiple women in the same day is pretty normal.

It's only abnormal when you just want to bang the same woman multiple times per day, on a daily basis.
I sense past trauma.
 

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There is a growing body of evidence that porn addiction is a real thing and does rewire your brain to the point of "needing" to view porn. Porn-induced ED is quite common for guys under 30 because unlike men my age, the younger crowd grew up one click away from 100's of porn scenes on high speed internet at any given time. Younger brains are easier to "wire" but much harder to undo than say someone over 40. The studies and research I've read about say that it's actually in the variety of women online that f*ucks you up. Our brains were not designed to rapid view that many sex partners or scenes so when a real woman shows up, she cannot measure up even subconsciously, hence ED and other problems.

All this I do believe.
 

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The movie Don Jon depicts Porn Addiction perfectly. Might want to go rent it or it might be on Netflix.
 

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I sense past trauma.
U r right, I feel traumatised if the same woman demands s€x multiple times in a single day on a daily basis.

On the other hand I feel rejuvenated if different women ask the same of me on a daily basis.
 

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There is a growing body of evidence that porn addiction is a real thing and does rewire your brain to the point of "needing" to view porn. Porn-induced ED is quite common for guys under 30 because unlike men my age, the younger crowd grew up one click away from 100's of porn scenes on high speed internet at any given time. Younger brains are easier to "wire" but much harder to undo than say someone over 40. The studies and research I've read about say that it's actually in the variety of women online that f*ucks you up. Our brains were not designed to rapid view that many sex partners or scenes so when a real woman shows up, she cannot measure up even subconsciously, hence ED and other problems.

All this I do believe.
No it's pretty simple. The "wiring" occurs when you have the stress/input and you have the action/reaction. So like I will make a habit of drinking if everytime I get stressed or angry I grab a cold one or a pint of whisky.

The same with sex. If everytime you feel lust or sexual desire and you go look at porn and jagg off, you will wire your brain to equate porn with sex. It really eff's up your natural reactions and subconscious with real ladies.
 

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Oxygen is one hell of a drug.:p
 

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my guess is that its got something to do with your ex. youre relatively fresh out of a breakup arent u?
Over 2 months in now. I’ve gotten over the memory of her and don’t actually like her again so not sure it’s that, me and the ex fvcked like rabbits until the last month or so.

Anyway I think it’s just high labido and not really addiction. My sex drive is not that high right now as I’ve had sex this morning and jacked off shortly after, so I’m going to pop a quarter kamagra after I jump in this shower. This girl has stood me up twice and she’s on her way to me now 20 min by car so I feel a duty to come through with the goods tonight. I’m banging out of duty rather than lust or need tonight, I’m sure a bottle of wine and seeing her will change my mind though.
 

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I’m at this chicks house, she’s a mental health nurse who deals with abused kids. I think it’s turned her crazy.

She’s told me a story how last week she was drinking here with two guys and some guy she was seeing turned up and one guy nearly got stabbed. She also said she might be pregnant haha. Fvcking nightmare women I get involved with. I don’t even wanna shag but I’m here now.
 

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Not sex addiction.... Normal.

Your young and full of ***.....

The "crazies" slows down as you age.... Trust me.
 

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"sex addiction" isn't a medically recognized illness in America. There's no diagnosis criteria.

So you are in the clear as far as that goes.

You have a high libido and are enjoying yourself. Like @Amante Silvestre said, if it isn't interfering with you having a productive life, there's nothing to worry about.
Interesting how it isn’t in there but post menstrual dysphoric disorder is (PMS extreme ).

It’s only a problem if it interfere with your daily life. If you constantly think about sex, will go to great lengths to get it , can’t focus on work because all you think about is sex, then I would contact a professional.

Just wanting to have a lot of sex is not a disease until it interferes with your day to day activity.
 

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Has anyone experienced this? I think I may have it.

I will happily bang constantly. The crazy girl who banged on my door last week has just left my house over an hour ago and I'm ready to jump this laptop to watch porn, even knowing I'm going to some girls house in 5 hours to drink wine eat pizza and bang.

She said I'm sex crazy, as long as my d1ck isn't sore I will want sex. I can obviously leave it and a couple week ago I went 2 weeks without sex and felt fine, it's not a need, but I can go all day.
You're a man. There's nothing wrong with being sexual. It becomes pathological when you're trying to enter sexual relationships with people you shouldn't pursue.
 

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spin plates and get off on all the female attention you are getting... fap heaven
 

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Has anyone experienced this? I think I may have it.

I will happily bang constantly. The crazy girl who banged on my door last week has just left my house over an hour ago and I'm ready to jump this laptop to watch porn, even knowing I'm going to some girls house in 5 hours to drink wine eat pizza and bang.

She said I'm sex crazy, as long as my d1ck isn't sore I will want sex. I can obviously leave it and a couple week ago I went 2 weeks without sex and felt fine, it's not a need, but I can go all day.
You should look into this. There are many sad stories out there how [sex] addiction destroys lives. The thing is that with an addiction you are no longer free but become increasingly enslaved.... to the very thing that you think will make you happy. It's the confusion of happiness with pleasure... and pleasure like the circular serpent feeds into a world of pain.
 

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You're a man. There's nothing wrong with being sexual. It becomes pathological when you're trying to enter sexual relationships with people you shouldn't pursue.
This is the modern mantra. But the moral philosophers of the past preached virtue instead. With virtue, YOU are in control, the rational you and not your passions.
 

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There is a growing body of evidence that porn addiction is a real thing and does rewire your brain to the point of "needing" to view porn. Porn-induced ED is quite common for guys under 30 because unlike men my age, the younger crowd grew up one click away from 100's of porn scenes on high speed internet at any given time. Younger brains are easier to "wire" but much harder to undo than say someone over 40. The studies and research I've read about say that it's actually in the variety of women online that f*ucks you up. Our brains were not designed to rapid view that many sex partners or scenes so when a real woman shows up, she cannot measure up even subconsciously, hence ED and other problems.

All this I do believe.
Guys, especially Don Juans, have got to wake up and smell the coffee. The floodgates of Pornography have been opened and flow into the living rooms of the over-washed middle-class masses nightly. If you use, and you think you are not addicted [just a 'recreational user'] test yourself. try to go for a few weeks without your little fix.....
 
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