SEX: a serious question.

[Rez]

I've been meaning to post this question for about a week now but I keep forgetting. So with that in mind, let's get on to the question. I'm currently in a LTR that's going very well. Yes, we have our ups and downs but then again who doesn't?

Anyway.

I've always been a HUGE advocate of safe sex but I tend to take it one step further. I have a terrible fear (terrible in the sense of "frightening" not "bad") of getting someone pregnant.

At this point in my life I have absolutely zero interest in having kids but one day would love to do so. That being said, by girlfriend keeps trying to get me to sleep with her without a condom. She's also on the pill and keeps stressing how safe it really is. I bet you can see where this is going...

Here's what I would like to know:

"What's the best way to politely tell her I don't want to have condomless sex with her?"

Yeah we've done so a few times but every time we do I get so paranoid and hate how it makes me feel. I also want to retain my masculinity while telling her this so please keep that in mind when you formulate your responses.

Thank you.

 

[Captain]

You should be more concerned about getting an STD than getting pregnant. Young people these days seem to forget all about STDs.

 

[londonzen]

on friday i come home late about 10.30 and two female friends of my lil bro are down in the kitchen with him(i dont know them)

anyway they were drinking and at about 1am my bedroom door flys open and its one of the girls
she comes introduces herself and plonks herself down on my bed and then does not stop talking for the next 45 minutes.
she was very forgetfull, a list of things she told me.

that im cute and only a few years older than her.
she has a bf in jail but she wants a more calmer guy.
that i am very calm
that the guy she fancies more than anyone is my bro(the one whos down stairs) but hes not that into her and i should talk to him.
that she wants to get pregnant soon and that she didnt mean to say that and not to tell my bro.
shes had an abortion(s).
she tricked her boyfriend to get her pregnant but had the a-bomb coz he went to jail.aload of other stuff and in the end my bro wasnt interested.


so as for the question dont do that with your gf if you dont want to
and also concentrate on the std aspect but dont stress that it is that (bad idea)
you could simply say that you will *** too quick or that its just something you dont do, but seeing as youve done it b efore

 

[Just a Shot Away]

that she wants to get pregnant soon and that she didnt mean to say that and not to tell my bro.
shes had an abortion(s).
she tricked her boyfriend to get her pregnant but had the a-bomb coz he went to jail.aload of other stuff and in the end my bro wasnt interested.

Dude chicks are so f'ing nuts, I swear. That is the most heinous, psychotic act that someone could pull...and this mindset is fairly common among female humans. I need to get a vasectomy.