"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sex 3-4 times a day?

shydude

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Okai well Im in a 7 month relationship and latelly I been F##kin about 3 to 4 times a day. Is that too much or is it completely normal. first and second time my boner is fine, but 3rd its a pain to get it..Also Latelly i have hard time ejaculating, sometimes i go on and on and cant *** so i just stop..Hmm anything wrong with that or is it completely natural too..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Vice

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Let's just say that's a problem I'd like to have...

But on a serious note, I'd imagine making her wait for it for a few days and teasing her will lead to very interesting sessions...
 

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Let me put it like this. Have you ever heard of a person dying from having TOO much sex? You're most likely young assuming from your question, so I'm going to guess that you don't have anykind heart problem ;)

Okay so for the psycological perspective. If for you it feels like too much and as you say "3rd its a pain to get it" then simply, don't have that much sex :)

I love having s3x so when I had a girlfriend, I boinked her 4-5 times a day!
It was lovely!

So the conclusion: It is not dangerous. It is not TOO much. If it FEELS too much, do it less. Get it?

Ps. In my opinion, do it as much as possible now before it's too late ;)

P10
 

frisco

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personally i think that's way too much between foreplay and sex it might take nearlly two hours times that by 3 and thats 6 hours a day on sex.. sometimes i make my girls wait a couple days here and there to build up my **** stamina but to each there own ha.
 

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Don't complain, some of us are still virgins.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Desert Fox

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that's cool but try not having her orgasm just keep her teetering on the brink

her orgasm will be like an H-bomb when she finally gets it...might put her in a coma haha jk but seirously that's a lot man...and i mean a lot of time that takes out of your day
 

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I have done sprints like that right for a week or so (always before the girls start their period to oddly enough) but when they finally do start I am honestly kinda relieved. (for a couple of days lol) If I get too much I get lazy I notice, just kinda blah and unmotivated. Kinda weird it would keep going like that so far into a relationship, I have always noticed great sex often in the beginning, then slowly tapers off into a "routine"

just my .02
 

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jdawgmcb said:
Don't complain, some of us are still virgins.
Sorry, but got to lol at that.... The answer to that is stop read this, turn of your computer and get out and find a real girl/woman.

As for sex 3-4 times a day, all I can say is you can't be satisfying her enough.

It's the old Quality over Quantity dynamic.

If you do her properly the first time around she should be so completely exhausted that she cannot move let alone want to do it again. Hone your between the sheets techniques too.
 

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I dated a girl for whom 3-4 times a day was the MINIMUM. Sex with her was just the easiest thing in the word and she was always in the mood. It was amazing while it lasted.

My point is: don't question it, enjoy it!
 

Night Owl

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Leporello said:
I dated a girl for whom 3-4 times a day was the MINIMUM. Sex with her was just the easiest thing in the word and she was always in the mood. It was amazing while it lasted.

My point is: don't question it, enjoy it!
Was she pregnant at the time ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Duffdog

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I dated a girl like this. She just wanted it all the time-- if I witheld it from her she would freak out (literally-- I didnt' find out til later that she was bipolar) It was kind of wierd, but I liked it too and never questioned anything while it was happening. I even told her to become athletic or I wouldn't nail her anymore...and she did!! Unfortunately that relationship didn't work out as she tried to kill me twice. But, the sex was off the hook.
 

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shydude said:
Okai well Im in a 7 month relationship and latelly I been F##kin about 3 to 4 times a day. Is that too much or is it completely normal. first and second time my boner is fine, but 3rd its a pain to get it..Also Latelly i have hard time ejaculating, sometimes i go on and on and cant *** so i just stop..Hmm anything wrong with that or is it completely natural too..
that's a lot of sex to be having with just one girlfriend lol.. i would get bored of it.. you do this daily? ouch, lol.

i have my own sex marathons (going on for many many hours at once) but never with girls i've been in a relationship for long..

well im glad both of you guys are having a healthy sexual appetite.

why do you have sex more than 3 times if you aren't really into it? does she initiate it and you just don't want to deny her?
 
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