"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Severely Depressed girl wants LTR, I ran and she started crying

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So this plate fell in love with me, really clingy, i didn't tell her where exactly my house is only for this reason, so i just wanted cexs but I'm glad i didn't.. i don't see her as ltr material..
She keeps saying **** about how guys hurt her feelings and how empty she feels inside (Sloot always feel used etc so instant red flag)..
So yesterday I told her i wanted an end(right after she complained about her depressed ****, accusing me of having other girls and trying to get me to commit to only her) .. that i like her and do not want to hurt her (obviously i don't like her i just want to escape to my other plates)... Because she's trying to keep me for only herself.. this is bad cos my life will become boring and depressed like hers if i date her lol

She was in shock when she heard that and tried to start saying **** like: "i didn't say i don't trust you, i trust you" bla bla to get me not to escalate breakup.. i don't even like her enough for ltr.. so she kept her head in her thigh and started crying, i started explaining things to her and how i dislike drama and complains about her always talk about feeling empty and cheated by many guys and that i can't just be happy being with such a person that brings me to their... "are you even listening to me?" i asked her, she kept her head down still, "I'll leave if you aren't even paying attention.. hey?" (i wanted to leave so I was looking for a reason to lol) I then walked away from there.. and hanged with my guys for <20mins (she was still there sitted alone. crying? i never met her to say goodbye, i saw easy escape and i took it.. I went home, eat and my other plate called.. i feel better.. thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If I'm with a woman who wants commitment and I don't, like a plate I want to keep as a plate, I say "relationships can be so volatile anymore. I think things are going great the way they are right now. Why risk ruining a good thing we already have going right now?"
 

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Ah...here we go. There were two of these threads.

Anyway, I would avoid women with mental health issues at all costs. From personal experience, you will be buried in an avalanche of drama, headaches, pain and regrets. If you get anything out of this post, RUN away from chicks who are damaged goods.
 

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You should be running away from this one and not looking back you don't get involved with crazy, I've been there done that, she turned my life upside down it was a nightmare I don't ever want to relive. If this one is crazy enough you may end up in trouble with the law you never know what these nut jobs can do.
 

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Ah...here we go. There were two of these threads.

Anyway, I would avoid women with mental health issues at all costs. From personal experience, you will be buried in an avalanche of drama, headaches, pain and regrets. If you get anything out of this post, RUN away from chicks who are damaged goods.
Facts.... I don't even see the fun in that.. they (depressed girls) feel no guy will ever love them etc so she wants to keep me attached to her smh.. really mental..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If I'm with a woman who wants commitment and I don't, like a plate I want to keep as a plate, I say "relationships can be so volatile anymore. I think things are going great the way they are right now. Why risk ruining a good thing we already have going right now?"
According to her actions.. she doesn't want cex until you show a level of commitment... she doesn't see herself as "sloot" lol but her reputation spells sloot all over.. maybe she's trying to decieve me to go LTR as I'm like her dream man.. and cos I have some influence on people around my city..
 
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