Seven magic words: When you look good; you feel good

[Belmar2009]

Whether you think your physical looks matter or not in attracting attractive women; I think this statement is 100% true.


When you look in the mirror and are mostly content with what you see; you will naturally be more confident.

If you overweight and self-conscious about it; for Christs sake start eating better and get to the gym. Stop making excuses! If you are making excuses, you really don't have the willpower to change.

If you are self consious about your receding hairline or baldness; for Christs sake either shave your head or go get a hair transplant (the only cure or baldness). Don't go with the Larry David or George Costanza look.

If you have bad teeth; for Christs sake go spend the $5,000 on orthodontics or cosmetic dentistry. Your smile can be a make or break deal with a woman.


If you have a below average looking nose that noticeably detracts from your looks; for Christs sakes go get a Rhinoplasty.


If you have a moderate to severe weak chin; for Christs sake go get a chin implant.

If you have acne scarred skin; for Christs sakes go spend a couple grand on Fraxel or Dermabrasion.



Cosmetic surgery is SAFE, AFFORDABLE (they have payment plans); PREDICATABLE and ACCEPTABLE these days (even or men).

There is really NO EXCUSE (unless you live below the poverty line) to be below average looking these days. SO QUIT WHINING how life is not fair; QUIT HATING on guys who look better than you and DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!


When there is a will; there is a way!

 

[rocksoff]

cool dude now ill get the rhinoplasty ive been wanting

 

[Allurre]

Some men live above poverty line and still can't afford cosmetic surgery.

 

[Bonafide]

Real men dont do **** like that

 

[Unbridled_Phoenix]

Uhh...do my legs look hairy in these shorts? lol

 

[f283000]

The easiest way to feel good is to dress good. Get yourself a sports coat, some ties, dress sharp.

 

[trent81]

yeah, cosmetic surgery (unless severely needed) is for gays or women. The most important thing for a man is taking care of his body and wearing clothes that fit him well. You don't need to change your body cosmetically. Just go to the gym, don't masturbate, and invest in some sharp clothes.

 

[BobMo']

OP is a plastic surgeon. Needs to make a boat payment.

Take that shaming BS elsewhere.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

The OP is trying to say that by looking good , you will become more confident. This is true at some point , but unless you find confidence from within yourself , its not going to last. All this superficial confidence is useless. You gotta work alot on yourself (not only in the terms of look) , know your value and don't let it become affected by sorroundings.

Thats is it. CORE CONFIDENCE.

You can go buy freshest clothes , get a completely new face and get a hulk body but thats not going to change you. Take it from someone who spend so much time to get something that he had within himself.

 

[Unbridled_Phoenix]

We all hold the common goals of wealth, the highest degree of independence, strength, physical attractiveness, power, influence, sexing all the women, etc.

But where does the confidence come from?

I'm reminded of the old saying, "What you achieve by accomplishing your goals is nowhere near as important as WHO you become by accomplishing them."

The greatest achievements of men like Henry Ford, Thomas Edison, Andrew Carnegie, John Rockefeller, Bill Gates etc. etc. were NOT the empires they built, the fortunes they obtained, or the power they wielded.

It was in how they conducted themselves when the deck was stacked against them, and they were nobodys. When no one else in the world believed in them, when everybody else scoffed at them, they kept the faith. They persevered. THAT was their greatest achievement, and the secret of their eventual success.

So hold your goal before you, and keep your faith. Greatness doesn't happen in the future; it happens NOW.