Settling for a hotter more complete girl ?

[slugey_dude]

Hey guys, new member here , long time lurker, been reading here and seems like a great community.

Preface: 28 year old male, id rate my self better than average looking guy.
both relationships i v had, have been with girls who i think were sexy ( i prefer cute faces over hot model like faces) and with whom i clicked well ( right from the start, that spark).... my second one of these relationships is slowly dying now. meanwhile a week ago i met this super hot chick, we v seen each other4 times in a week, shes a 9/10, smart close to my age range, rich family and we click a lil, and shes super into me.!! BUT i dont feel the samew connection as the other ones, would you keep seing this girl knowing shes gorgeous and the complete package but you have a smaller connection with her ? or just keep looking for that full on connection somewhere else) so confused im 28, i need to have a serious one soon, ( goal is to settle down soon ) there is a connection there but im wondering if it will develop to how it was with the other 2


THANKS SO MUCH


although this post sounds very beta, been with bout 40 girls, so got beta and alpha phases, but its a challenge to keep it up there

 

[thatfeel]

You are thinking about it way too much. Focus on having sex with the girl and let the girl build the connection. If you want to build connections do it with co-workers and other men.

 

[Slash Dolo]

Keep at it for a month and see if things change. Have sex. Take things slow.

I had a similar experienced and lost a hot chick because I was being way way too picky at the time and I certainly regret it now that she's in a LTR.