"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Setting up the next "date"

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Looking for some input from you guys so I can turn this into a true plate.

So I've been talking with this girl for a couple of weeks. Fvcked her last week. When I did that, I suggested we go to her place because I thought I'd warmed her up enough to skip taking her out but she wanted to go out and "see where it leads" first. So I made a proposal and long story short (and as both me and you guessed beforehand), when we actually got to the place it took 5 minutes before she changed her mind and wanted to go home and fvck instead after I took her to an unlit room. She loves, or I should say craves being physically dominated and verbally demeaned during sex - strangling, hair pulling, spanking, good hard pumping, all while you tell her she's a sex toy/slvt/wh0re/cvm receptacle etc. But during sex she got scared that I might have had an STD since I've never tested myself and her ex claimed he was free but gave her something so she's wary of that.

I could sense that although she did like the fvcking I gave her and all - she said we could be fvckfriends - that the "scare" put her vibe off. She didn't initiate anything during the time period I went to get tested, all I did meanwhile was tell her how hard I'm gonna fvck her when my results showing I'm healthy as a sunrise are back. So today I got my results and as I thought, I'm clean. I busted her a little about it today and I'm wondering what would be the optimal way to set up a "date" in this scenario. I've felt her out a little and although she's flirting back somewhat, I don't totally feel the vibe.

Do I just say I'm gonna come over at so and so time and fvck the sh!t out of her?
Do I set up a "date" again?
In either case, what words/vibe/details do I use when saying it? give me some cool ideas guys.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'd guess that inviting yourself to her place won't go over all that well--she knows she has pvssy power and if she's as insecure as she sounds she'll use it to jerk you around. She'll get more satisfaction from watching a high value male chase than she would from sex.

So don't give her that satisfaction.

I'd either soft next, and let her come to you. Or invite her to something ambiguous with no hints of sex involved--but close to her house. Any shopping you need to do nearby? I'd hit her with something like, "I'm going to X grocery store, looking for a cute cart pusher." Let her think: 'Wait, so does he not want me? Was I not good enough? I'll show him...'

Right now she has frame.
 

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So I asked her if someone had ever taken her to this tower. She says no. I say I'll take her there at friday. She says she's busy the whole weekend. Time for a soft next and developing my other plates. There are some positive details like the length and emotion in her texts, but that doesn't change the fact. But I think what I told her just now will have her coming back for more.
 
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