"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Setting up a date.

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Which of these is better?

1. "What's your schedule like for the weekend?"
2. "What are you doing on X day at X time?"

I like the second one because it makes you seem less available (which we all know is a good thing) and also makes you come across as more dominant because you're "taking control", so to speak, but it seems to carry a higher risk of her not being able to make it because you're being so specific. The first one is less risky in that aspect, but it might make it seem like you're too available, or perhaps even too eager.

Any thoughts?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How about "Let's do ___________ X day at X time". Offer an engagement, don't request an appointment.
 
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"I'm doing X at Y time on Z date, would you like to join me?"
 
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^^ That's sort of what I've been doing already. Basically, after finding out if a girl is available for a certain time, I don't ASK her if she wants to chill, I tell her that we WILL chill at said time :D.
 
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My previous post was directed at S1NN3R, btw.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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