"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by dentalfloss
'challenge' escapes you in more than one way, apparently 'righting' is also a challenge for you
well no not really, and if you are going to point that out, at least spell writing properly because know one likes a hypocrit.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
well no not really, and if you are going to point that out, at least spell writing properly because know one likes a hypocrit.
think that was the point of the joke roy. Hi again by the way.

Miss me?
 

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Originally posted by jonny football hero
think that was the point of the joke roy. Hi again by the way.

Miss me?
well i dnt know how much i missed you but i noticed you had gone, lets just say your lack of prescence here was felt.
 

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Wow, the post count shot up in my abscence....So........ hows the lovelife?
 
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