Setting Goals + Keeping Them

[kingxxxman]

What are some good goals to set? and what are the best ways to keep them? i am a high school student looking to do well in school. I want to improve myself and be proud of myself before anyone else can be proud of me.... any reminder programs of good motivational quotes i can put in like those of pooks? or anything?

 

[Nino-Tk]

Whats up king? I wish you could stay with us in the bootcamp bra but it's cool I can understand your situation bra and well what helped me is the thread called 'GETTING and STAYING on track' I think its by Sammo or something, its also located in the HS bible if I'm not mistaken.

 

[kingxxxman]

thanks dude appreciate it...6 ib courses is a real pain.... i literally sleep at 2-3 everyday and wake up at 6...gonna be a long year.... i figure i might as well go all out + get into a good school which will seriously get me some.(when im older) lol

 

[Matt281]

Goals you set should depend on what you want. It sounds like the main things you want are to do well in school and get good with girls, so start there.

School - First, ask why you're doing this. If you're like 99% of other people, you're trying hard in HS to get into a good university. So make that your goal, and remember that whenever you don't feel like doing anything.

As for specific goals, focus on what you can do right now, tomorrow and the next day. The biggest problem with goal setting is that it's some vague thing far in the future. What can you do NOW to move you along your way? What can you do tomorrow?

Girls - I have a hard time believing you really have no extra time. You get off school at what, 2:30? You're not spending 12 hours studying unless you're really wasting your time. Focus on the important stuff and don't do more than you have to.

So when it comes to girls, you just need as much experience as possible. Set aside as much time as you can to either socialize with girls, or go somewhere that you can approach. Remember it takes tons of experience to really get good, but you're starting early, so if you don't give up you'll be fine.

Same day by day rule applies. Eventual goal: Hot girlfriend or new girls every week, whatever you want. Goals now: get as much experience with women as humanly possible.

 

[kingxxxman]

well my main thing here is that i gain confidence and be proud of myself.... at my school, the social norm is to stay in your clique since its a very small school. if you go out of your clique, your labeled creepy etc.... therefore, i just want to develop social skills and confidence and being a fun person... when i get into that dream school, i'll bring it to the next level.

What are good ways of REMEMBERING and reminding yourself of these goals, so that you're always in the mindset?

 

[Nino-Tk]

Well self-affirmations every morning infront of a mirror is what keeps me going. Try it.

 

[kingsam]

well my main thing here is that i gain confidence and be proud of myself.... at my school, the social norm is to stay in your clique since its a very small school. if you go out of your clique, your labeled creepy etc.... therefore, i just want to develop social skills and confidence and being a fun person... when i get into that dream school, i'll bring it to the next level.

What are good ways of REMEMBERING and reminding yourself of these goals, so that you're always in the mindset?

dont fall into the Social Conditioning of the AFC masses

if you are positivly dominant and assertive, and can connect well with people in different groups you will be looked up to, you can have friends all over

 

[kingxxxman]

well i literally have friends in every group. it's just that when you approach a girl in the hallway, they most likely know you already so its not really like a introduction or w.e and it can be labeled as creepy.