"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Setting Goals - Cutting Down

ENIGMA16

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I'm currently trying to cut down a significant amount of body fat and am having a difficult time sticking to my diet/lifting routine because of how intrusive it has been on my life and how I have basically no goals from which to gauge my progress.

Basically, my diet/lifting routine isn't that intrusive, but considering the fact that I really enjoy consuming alcohol (particularly beer) on the weekends and because I'm usually too tired/achy to participate in other activities I enjoy that are really high cardio, not having a real tangible goal is really starting to wear me down. I've been deviating a ton and don't want to completely fall off the wagon.

I don't know if my gym's trainer measures body fat, but I'm planning on getting into contact with her to get it measured weekly/biweekly so that I can set some tangible goals. Until then, and on the off chance that she can't/won't do that, what other options do I have in terms of setting some goals so I can actually see my progress in cutting down?

I mean last time I cut down I lost weight but it's only a really small amount, considering that I'm lifting too so I'm replacing it with muscle. Any ideas on what else I can do to keep myself motivated over this? :confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Paintballguy

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I can tell you that drinking beer is so bad for you. An average light beer is around 140 calories for a 12 oz can. So lets say you drink 6 beers. That would be 840 calories.

Cutting/losing weight really just comes down to will power and motivation. It takes a lifestyle change and a lot of hard work.
 

EFFORT

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