"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Set yourself apart from others

terminator911

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Finally got permission to post this:

TIP #1 - Single women go on dates to have a good time, not to be serious.
Keep this in mind and never act serious on the first few dates. If you try
to get serious, sexual, and romantic too soon, you will only drive women away.

TIP #2 - Add imagination and romance to your dates. Do things slightly
different than the norm. Instead of just having dinner at your place, have
a candlelit dinner with fresh flowers on the table. Go to see classic
films. Spend an afternoon at the museum. In other words, try to set
yourself apart from all of the other guys. It's easy to tell what she is
used to doing on dates - out to a movie, to dinner, to a party. So avoid
the same old thing, or add a slight variation to what she is used to. She
will remember it.

TIP #3 - End the date before she does. When you first start dating, it is
important to avoid that awkward time when it is getting late and she
finally has to announce that it is time for her to go home. When the
evening is still going well and still on an "up note," announce that you
"...hate to end the evening because you've had such a great time, but it is
getting late and..." This is going to surprise her because most guys hang
on until the bitter end hoping that by some miracle they will end up in bed
for some hot passionate sex with her.

By ending the date before she does, you:

1. Set yourself apart from other guys.
2. Continue to maintain control over her and the evening.
3. Make yourself hard to get.
4. Suggest that you aren't desperate for action, therefore there must be
other single girls in your life and she is going to have to work harder to
catch you.

P.S. If you would like more dating tips on how to meet, attract, and seduce
women please visit: http://www.getgirls.com

Don Diebel

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"Women. They've got half the money in the world and all the pu$$y."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anti-Dump

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Excellent post Terminator.

Everyone should read this stuff.

Tip #3 is important. Most guys always try to EXTEND the date as late as possible. Bad move.

Keep up the great posts Term.

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Robert Jordon

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Dam@! Another great piece of information! man I think I'm gonna have 2 creat my own personal database 2 store all these posts in!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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organizedconfusion

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i love action dates, or dates where we just hang out in the city or taking a mini road trip
:) agreed on the museums and old classic movies being boring though...
 
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