Set up date for today, txtd her last night, no answer, continue or go w/o her?

[AFCToDJSlowButSurely]

i posted in my transitions post that i set up a meet with this J-Girl i met at school for today. Im supposed to go get her in an hr @ her house. Anyway, there was a change in plans so i texted last night a whats up msg to let her know..

Here is a repost of the Facebook chat from the Transitions post

Convo on FB between me and J-Girl on Monday night, im aware its FB but she didnt reply to my text on last thursday i sent

April 24
11:07pmMe
hola, whats up
Today
7:15pmHer
hey! sorry i didnt respond! whats upppppppp
7:21pmMe
chillin, working on some assignments
7:30pmMe
what are you doing besides being a big nerd?
7:31pmHer
nerd?!?!?!
7:33pmMe
well, you study all the time right
7:35pmHer
im not! i went out last weekend so im kinda busy right now! im not really serious student:0 lol
today my teacher said "you r lazy" lol
7:36pmMe
yeah, whatever nerd girl
7:36pmHer
what is nerd????
7:36pmMe
someone that doesnt have much of a social life lol
7:36pmHer
lol i do! haha
i used to ...
7:38pmMe
prove it
7:38pmHer
lets hang out you will see my social skills! :|]
7:39pmMe
nice smiley
alright, come with me on saturday to a cricket match @3 then, ill pick you up
7:41pmHer
wow! thats sweet! ... whats that by the way..
7:45pmMe
now if i told you that, it wouldnt be a surprise now would it? be ready by 1:45 pm that day and ill come by to meet and get you
7:47pmHer
u r right! wow nice. it will be funnnnn <3
7:53pmMe
so whats the address i need to go to to get you?
7:56pmHer
*Address* :|] <3
8:02pmMe
alright
8:03pmHer
so where is that ?
8:07pmMe
wheres what?
8:07pmHer
the match
8:12pmMe
up in tukwila
8:38pmHer is offline.

As you can see the interest seems to be there, she seemed pretty into me too(lots of IOIs) when i originally got her number. Should i just show up in an hour like i said i would @ her house? Should I go without her? Or try one last time to get hold of her, call and leave a vmail if she doesnt reply? I dont want to come off desperate but this is a confusing situation?

 

[f283000]

brother, what you should do is answered in The 2 strikes rule. Read it, apply the concept to your life and you won't be confused as what to do in such simple situation such as this one in the future.

What you should do is give her another chance by asking her out again in the future. If she flakes on you again that's strike 2 and NEXT! You don't need her to go out and have fun.

 

[AFCToDJSlowButSurely]

thanks for the reply bro. so i will go without her then. dont know why she would give me her address so freely though if she wasnt interested, thats the confusing part.

 

[Tinsil]

lol. She gave you her address that's true.... she's gotta be at least interested. weird.

 

[Igetit!]

Dude,where did you meet this girl? Out in the woods?


You called her a nerd,she said,"What is that?".

You invited her to a game of cricket,she said,"What is that?"


I might be able to let her slide on the cricket,but she's never heard the term "nerd"?


WOW.



She needs to go on the date with you if for no other reason than to simply get out of the house,lol.



If you have this girl's number,then why don't you call her?

If you get ahold of her,then great,if not,then you can try again later or simply move on.




In my opinion,you haven't put enough effort into your interactions with her to just give up yet.

 

[AFCToDJSlowButSurely]

shes from Japan lol, hence "J-Girl" my bad for not clarifying that.

and i did call her last week, she didnt answer.

many people dont answer if they dont know who it is from my understanding, she didnt have my number i had hers then, she should have mine now though from the texts.

i will give her one last shot, was pretty much done with her after that, ill try for something next week when i have time.

btw i had a great time without her if any of you are wondering that

 

[Julian]

Dude shes a J girl not some trick out of the states...Ive found J girls to be ready to jump into bed asap. Just my experience (banged one J girl I met in a grocery store 10 minutes after meeting her).


I didnt read your whole post but dude this online game **** especially with a girl who's english is not her first language...its like dude just call her set some **** up for that day or the next day...


In todays society making dates a week in advance...might as well not even make it...peoples attention span is so short...better to just try an set up **** spontaneously or for the very near future like in the next day or 2.


wtf cricket match go for a drink an than smash that ass