Set the bar at the max: how women should treat you( real life example)

[Gamisch]

Imo the forum does lack success stories. We talk all day about women, but to what degree does it actually has a positive effect on your life?

Wanted to give you guys an update on my current situation. Its ..mind boggling and amazing at the same time.
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Im seeing a woman and boy oh boy. Ive NEVER seen anything like this.

- looks like kim Kardashian's relative
- has a MUCH higher social status than me
- drags me to the bedroom if she sees me. I can use her as my sex toy at any given moment
- Does EVERYTHING I ask her to. Running errands, clipping my toenail( lol) you name it
- is extremely conservative ( and yall know my stance by now so....)
-goes out of her way to let me know that other men have no chance . ( and she gets PLENTY of offers)

The downside;
-Is really emotional. I can't leave her on read for multiple days.
- jealous. Not more or less than other women but still..
-need my attention. Alltho it doesn't take much to "make her happy"( just some words of affection are enough)

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How did we get here?

-It's been a SLOW game. I've been leveling up constantly, so no tactics but rather a strategy. The strategy ( long-term ) was to become more and more valuable to noth myself and the outside world. I did went through some tough moments, but it pays off tremendously.

- recently the same thing keeps happening; women actually " approach " me constantly. Not on a daily basis ofcourse, but let's say 3 to 4 per month. They make it EXTREMELY easy for me to pull the trigger . They see me and INSTANTLY feel a " connection ".

- imo this has to do with my AURA more than anything else. Yes I'm a horndog, but I can also carry a convo effortlessly. I can be fun ,but im also serious and protective. And offourse: IDGAF if a woman doesn't want me or withdraws. I got bigger fish to fry , and most women are actually an inconvenience to me. And somehow...it works wonders!

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What can YOU do to get this type of situation?

- take a few steps back. Take a hiatus.
- get your money up. In such a way that you have a back for a back for a back up.
- do NOT brag about money or show it to women
- have a mission that is larger than life.
- be ready to walk away from any woman at any moment regardless of how hot she is
- and most importantly : be yourself, unapologetically.


Hope this helps to inspire some of yall.

 

[Westminster]

That's strong work, man

Nice to hear a success story for a change.

 

[blonde30]

That’s wonderful that you’re finding your own groove that works. I found the number one thing that worked for me with women and they’ve been saying this since the beginning of time. From the get go, they want a man that’s better than them. Think about it. They pretty much come out and say that I want a man that makes more money then me, that’s stronger then me, taller then me, cooler, funnier, etc. you get the point. All things saying I want better than me. If you can act and play the part in any woman’s eyes. Your set. Problem is most guys come from a place of lack. Always hiding behind the you have to be good looking, rich, popular, successful, etc. Don’t get me wrong. Those help but Ive heard the line plenty of times “you’re not usually my type but there’s something about you”. I just laugh and look off into the horizon and think oh I'm exactly your type. I’ve just fooled you into thinking he’s better than me. Why do you think women love arrogant, ****y, sarcastic, funny types. We’ve all seen the bombshell with some bum and wonder how. Then you’ll hear guys comment, he’s probably rich or got lucky somehow. Then you actually talk to the guy and watch how he operates around her and you’d think. What a pos but it works what he’s doing.

we’ve all seen women complaining on doing everything and even paying for everything and they still get cheated on or dumped. They can’t figure out how they even ended up with that guy. The whole give an ugly guy a chance type girls. They didn’t end up with him by chance. That guy went into that thinking he was the prize. The only time he’d put that girl on a pedestal is to look up her dress. When you think you’re better. You are. Most guys are intimidated by a girls beauty. They think they have no chance. Hell…some women even test you to see if her beauty over powers you with disrespect but the one guy that calls her out on it. Instant attraction. You always have a chance rich or average. Good looking or average. It’s how you operate that wins out at the end of the day. But one of the main ingredients you have to have is potential. Like your going places. I’ve been in the local band when I was younger that played at pubs and the amount of women that love getting with the guitarist was pretty good. If you’re bands pretty good. They’ll think. What if their band makes it. You could be living in a run down apartment and still be bagging that rocket for a year or two until it doesn’t work out.

Long story short. That’s what worked for me. You can even run into guys asking, who’s your friend or how did you get that girl. I just always tell them straight up how and a lot of times they don’t believe it. Everyone has their own systems. I learned from the old pros back in the day where a lot of their material got scrubbed from the net.

 

[pipeman84]

How can you make a thread about a supposed success story with a woman without mentioning at the very least her age and her past (bodycount)?

 

[jhonny9546]

Good job, gamish.

In my case, I've also worked on myself and reached a position similar to the one you describe.

Yet I perceive a bias, namely, the fact that I've worked hard and have an IDGAF attitude toward women, and the fact that there are some women who make everything easy, and then can't let go of me, could simply confirm the fact that I'm a man of value, but this, in my opinion, is a bias: I'm a man of value in THEIR eyes.

We must remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.