"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Set Goals for Motivational Purposes

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mahon83050

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I have realized it is somewhat hard to get motivated if you do not set goals (or deadlines) for yourself. For example, I want to get some p&ss& badly, but I have not had a date in over two months. In order for me to get girls I have to initiate contact and ask them out, even if that means leaving my comfort zone. If lets say, I set a goal to ask atleast one girl out a month, that would be a good motivation, don't you agree?NO GOALS=NO MOTIVATION
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That goal isn't very good because it's too lenient. You need to talk to 2-4 girls a week and actually get to asking out at least 1 a week. Any less than that and you'll forget what happened when you analyze your mistakes after your rejections.
 
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For me, I have found that goal-setting is very important for the process of overall personal improvement. But If you are an AFC, then the goals you set must be realistic, and taken one step at a time. Advising a complete AFC to do 4 apporaches a week or something like that, when cognitively and emotionally this AFC is a wreck, is no good. I think the best goals for a starter should be in eating habit, exercise habits, and Then social. They pretty much are consequent of eachother and became easier to achieve as one achieves the previous goal. I use to be a complete AFC, then I slowly started to set goals, and sticking to them- thankfully I was raised in a military type household which promoted discipline, so I have always had that...but it also wussified me in the long-run. Anyways, now im a recovering AFC and getting better all the time. This site has given me hope like nothing else. hope that helps a little.
 
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