There needs to be more than a few forums .... why would an MDJ post here with all these AFC's.. Seriously a board where only MDJ and a board where only DJ's can post without getting flooded by AFC's who constantly stay on is really needed
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Seriously...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
That's the dumbest suggestion I've ever heard for a couple of reasons:
1-If someone's such a big time AFC, how in the fuvk are they going to learn how to change their ways if their stuck with a bunch of other AFC's.
2-Being titled a MDJ, doesn't make you a MDJ. Its all based on post count and the amount of time you've been a member of the board.(If this is not how you get the MDJ or SDJ title, then ignore this reason)
PIMP
1-If someone's such a big time AFC, how in the fuvk are they going to learn how to change their ways if their stuck with a bunch of other AFC's.
2-Being titled a MDJ, doesn't make you a MDJ. Its all based on post count and the amount of time you've been a member of the board.(If this is not how you get the MDJ or SDJ title, then ignore this reason)
PIMP
Well maybe
because MJD's could give them advice... And maybe so there'd be a whole forum where there had been tons of posts on subjects possibly similar where an AFC could go through with out Reading other AFC's suggestions... everyone wants to help out and give there two cents , and some people have a hard time telling the difference on what a MDJ and a AFC would do because they are an AFC
because MJD's could give them advice... And maybe so there'd be a whole forum where there had been tons of posts on subjects possibly similar where an AFC could go through with out Reading other AFC's suggestions... everyone wants to help out and give there two cents , and some people have a hard time telling the difference on what a MDJ and a AFC would do because they are an AFC
also
I'm not talking about the system on the web board but rather people who have been personally recgonized as DJ's or MDJ's by someone who'd be voted in . and only after personally recgonition by this supreme MDJ would they be allowed to enter into discussions and debates that only take place among other MDJ's or dJ's... so there wouldn't be all that garbage and bad advice thrown into discussions
I'm not talking about the system on the web board but rather people who have been personally recgonized as DJ's or MDJ's by someone who'd be voted in . and only after personally recgonition by this supreme MDJ would they be allowed to enter into discussions and debates that only take place among other MDJ's or dJ's... so there wouldn't be all that garbage and bad advice thrown into discussions
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
maybe im coming accross bad
what I'm trying to say wouldn't it be nice if users could before posting a problem ask themselves , i wonder what if the MDJ's have discussed anything similar together, and search through there threads... and wouldnt it be nice to give good advice and get regconition as a DJ or MDJ by fellow MDJ ... i mean some AFC's can't tell much difference between whats the thing or not the thing to do or they wouldn't ask but they are bombarded with more advice from fellow AFC's than fellow MDJ's in this forum without a way to weed out what elder DJ's would do... unless of course they stick around for countless hours.... searching through threads to find out the outcomes of whos advice... It's like more of the people on this thread are quik to debate/argue and even agree with these women who just come for god knows what reason.. instead of agreeing or disagreeing and appretiating the advice and different perspective of fellow elder Dj's
what I'm trying to say wouldn't it be nice if users could before posting a problem ask themselves , i wonder what if the MDJ's have discussed anything similar together, and search through there threads... and wouldnt it be nice to give good advice and get regconition as a DJ or MDJ by fellow MDJ ... i mean some AFC's can't tell much difference between whats the thing or not the thing to do or they wouldn't ask but they are bombarded with more advice from fellow AFC's than fellow MDJ's in this forum without a way to weed out what elder DJ's would do... unless of course they stick around for countless hours.... searching through threads to find out the outcomes of whos advice... It's like more of the people on this thread are quik to debate/argue and even agree with these women who just come for god knows what reason.. instead of agreeing or disagreeing and appretiating the advice and different perspective of fellow elder Dj's
justheretohelp
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I don't think that would work at all!!! That's not a great idea, let's toss it in the garbage, shall we?
I don't think that would work at all!!! That's not a great idea, let's toss it in the garbage, shall we?
So quick...
What will it take for people to value organization? A woman
I look at some of the problems people have, and Look at how many posts they've made and I am ****ing shocked. I'm sure t's occured to some one, perhaps Something isn't right here... how could this guy have been around long enough to make THIS many posts yet be asking questions like these..... then you scroll down and to your amazement look at who's giving the advice?
and when someone is actually giving good advice what's happening ? Is anyone AT all siding with you unless you are fingerz MOTU or someone else.... And when it is them... How many people flood that damn post with compliments. How often do these people with any recognition get a chance to discuss things without having to skim through a bunch of bull****.
When's the last time you gave good advice and people actually appretaited and considered, expressed agreement. Was there a time when you and the person with the problem didn't have to sort through a bunch of bull****
What will it take for people to value organization? A woman
I look at some of the problems people have, and Look at how many posts they've made and I am ****ing shocked. I'm sure t's occured to some one, perhaps Something isn't right here... how could this guy have been around long enough to make THIS many posts yet be asking questions like these..... then you scroll down and to your amazement look at who's giving the advice?
and when someone is actually giving good advice what's happening ? Is anyone AT all siding with you unless you are fingerz MOTU or someone else.... And when it is them... How many people flood that damn post with compliments. How often do these people with any recognition get a chance to discuss things without having to skim through a bunch of bull****.
When's the last time you gave good advice and people actually appretaited and considered, expressed agreement. Was there a time when you and the person with the problem didn't have to sort through a bunch of bull****
Now now Survivor...We both know he's a newbie and we know how newbies don't use that useful button called "Search."Originally posted by Survivor
...a Masters-only forum? What an original concept..
Thread moved to Suggestions and Feedback.
I wouldnt be so sure. I bet hes a troll voicing his opinions that he knows would be flamed, but under the protection of a false name.Originally posted by crazykid
Now now Survivor...We both know he's a newbie and we know how newbies don't use that useful button called "Search."
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.