"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Seriously, WTF.

Kaptain

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:up:

Now you talking

:woo: Control. The DJ power word.

Maybe G2 will find the night wild and crazy crazy with Eccentric :D

Smilie On

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ol'BlueEyes

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This is a classic example (I've been guilty of it myself) of treating a skanky club girl like a nice girl.
I was always taught to treat ALL women with respect. Anytime a slutty ***** actually showed interest in me and came on STRONG, I had no clue how to react to it. I've been in more hot chicks' bedrooms without sealing the deal than I care to mention.
It's one of the toughest lessons I've learned.
 

Eccentric

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Well both chicks flaked.

I called the club slut up to see what was going on, and some dude answered the phone like he was a tough guy. Got all bent out of shape. She gets on the phone and is like have a happy new year. So I jokingly said "for a minute I thought your voice changed into a guys." She laughed and was like "oh nevermind him, he's just some guy I've been seeing. I'll talk to you tomorrow hun, let me know how your night was!"

Wonderful.

Getting an honest answer from girl #2 was like pulling teeth. So I just said have a fun night and that was the end of our convo.

Can't dwell on them. They're only 18 and 19.
 
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