"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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seriously... what's her problem?

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I have known a girl for some time now, and we went to prom together b/c she asked me to go. We had a decent time. Even after prom, we talked to each other almost every day in school. However, for some reason, she seems to be avoiding me on AIM constantly, although we talked on AIM every day before prom. Whenever I say hi to her, she goes away or even logs off. Does she hate me? What's going on?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chicks Just Dig Me

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You did not present yourself as a challenge. You said you talked to her everyday--that is a bad sign. Try to limit the number of times you talk to her cuz that takes away "her wanting to talk to you." I made the same mistake so make sure you limit the number of times you talk to girls. Refer to the push-pull method. Take with her one day, ignore her for a couple of days, then go back in...etc--Good luck!
 
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